Not on Social Media

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-02-06T22:38:32+00:00

Not having social media is an advantage. You can focus on what actually works, which is charming a woman with in person polarity and indifference.

The same cute girl that wouldn't give u the light of day on a dating app or IG would probably go out with you if you can make her feel comfortable and flattered in real life, the thousands of followers they have do not have the power of non verbal arousal on initial contact because they ain't actually present.

Fuzzy-Bottle-4138 · 2024-02-06T22:16:10+00:00

You should try to get on the dating apps as well as doing cold approach. I would just start trying to take more photos of yourself if possible. Ask your friends to take more photos when you’re out. If you have close girlfriends, many will be willing to help you take photos and tell you which are best. You can also hire a professional photographer to get some good shots.

But yea you won’t do well on the apps with all selfies.

JG506 · 2024-02-07T00:32:26+00:00

You could get a tripod and set a timer for pictures

yolo24seven · 2024-02-07T02:32:54+00:00

Many people giving outdated advice. For women in their 20s social media is important. Luckily its not that hard to build a passable social media account. All you need is IG. Spend one weekend going to various view points in your city. That will give you 4-5 good photos. Then take a selfie at a cool cage or bar. This is usually passable. If girl questions you about your low followers then just say your previous account was hacked.

letsgetwizzyy · 2024-02-07T00:58:02+00:00

I don't have social media and it doesn't affect my dating at all. I primarily stick to cold approach and use dating apps, with the majority of my actually dates coming from cold approach.

If you do decide to go with the online dating route, make sure to get good pictures taken. They don't have to be shot by a photographer, but you do want various pictures of you doing various things with a high quality smart phone. I would not recommend selfies. Not having social media isn't a problem, but bad photos on your online dating profile is.

As far as cold approach goes, yes, cold approach is a great idea. You most likely will have more success doing cold approach because you can convey personality and build attraction. Don't worry about looking like a fool if you run into a girl later, it's only a big deal if you make it one. I hit on women in gyms all the time, and regularly run into women who have rejected me. It's literally not a big deal. The majority of the time, if you run into someone who rejected you, they most likely will not acknowledge your existence, it's literally what happens. So, yes, cold approach, and ignore any fears you may have with regards to how you will be perceived. Luckily, with cold approach, you can literally hit on women anywhere.

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This article discusses what to do / say when cold approaching women: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-approach-women-at-the-gym?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web&showWelcome=true

TonyDCoaching · 2024-02-06T22:11:40+00:00

Cold approach is king. It is the lynchpin that will hold everything else in your life, sex or otherwise, together. If you don't have the ability to approach a woman, tell her she's attractive, and get her contact... you're screwed.

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aklseduction · 2024-02-07T02:59:52+00:00

Majority of my success has come from social media and bars.

I’ve quit social media for about two years. I personally found it a lot more convenient sitting on the couch chatting up women through IG and fb , but you don’t need it per se. I was a massive party animal so I was meeting women all the time anyway, and they really couldn’t care less about me having social media or not. As a busy man with a real life, I never bothered wasting my time purposely going out cold approaching, so I’m not sure how that would turn out with no social media considered.

One plus I can think of is that women find you a lot more mysterious and alluring if you don’t have any social media accounts. It honestly really isn’t but I’m this day and age where everybody is on IG a just use it to your advantage.

I don’t party so much these days so this is where social media used to come in handy for me.

SteveJabbaUK · 2024-02-07T17:48:28+00:00

I wouldn't worry too much about the lack of "pimped out" photos, but definitely don't upload too many selfie pics on dating apps.

Start going out and trying to capitalise on approaching off IOI's. This is my speciality, and it's a MUCH higher success ratio when you approach off IOIs, so it sounds like you've got a good grounding to begin with.

If you're worried about bumping into girls you meet, try weekends away in the nearest large city, and possibly 1-2 week holidays in Eastern Europe if you're in Europe / UK. If America, nearest equivalent.

I wouldn't carry out your plan of asking strangers to photograph you - it's almost always obvious to girls whether your pics are genuine, and you run the risk of coming across as a Bundy-Esque type with this approach! Do NOT wear a fake plaster cast on your arm under any circumstances.

Title	Not on Social Media
Author	nocturne2722
Upvotes	8
Comments	16
Date	February 6, 2024 9:58 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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