Ok, so I went out with friends to a bar the other night. There was a stand-up comedian and we were all having a good laugh. We're all the same age except this one girl who is slightly older (maybe by 3 years or so. She's 25 and we're all 21-22).

Anyway, I think she's cool so I sit next to her when the comedian starts. We're having a great time and she's laughing like crazy, as are a lot of people. Throughout the show, we look at each other and make eye contact while we're laughing, but nothing past that.

I wasn't sure what to do to initiate IOI's. In retrospect, I suppose I could have tried some kino, but I guess I couldn't do it mentally. I had it in my head that she was into guys more her age. Even though it's only 3 years, it's a big difference. EG: she's graduated university and I've still got a few years.

At any rate, we're (her, myself, and the group of friends, about 6 of us all together) going for dance lessons soon and I know this is another opportunity. What should I do or look for?

I know the obvious answers: ask her to be your partner, start conversation, laugh about how much we both suck at dancing, etc. But What sorts of IOI's should I look for? Also, I haven't really done any DHV other than being confident and initiating conversation. but that's not really DHV.

Any input would be appreciated!