obtaining multiple gfs

FullFig3372 · 2024-02-16T20:41:08+00:00

obtain multiple sources of income

No_Plan8250 · 2024-02-16T21:15:02+00:00

If she's not down, you'll need to find someone else. Relationships are negotiations, polyamorous relationships are complex negotiations. Do you have enough negotiating power to pull this off?

tilldeathdoiparty · 2024-02-17T01:01:13+00:00

Be honourable and make sure she is aware that you are dating, if you’ve committed to a monogamous situation than you will definitely want to address this prior to sleeping around.

Your integrity as a man should be more important than anything else you maintain, years down the road when you look back, you can hold your head up high and know that you didn’t fuck anyone over and no one fucked you over on purpose. As you grow older you will value respect and integrity, you don’t know when this will come back to haunt you and trust me, you don’t want it hanging over your head.

What goes around, comes around and usually the receipt on the back side is a lot worse

Edit - Plus there are guys my age who have open relationships and slaaayyyy with their wives, ‘throuples’ and unicorns all time. You will be way happier not sneaking around, and if this one isn’t down, good, you will find one that is and you can just be happy.

NeuroticPanda · 2024-02-17T01:53:54+00:00

Read Pimp by Iceberg Slim, and you’ll have all the answers that you need (that is if you want a shortcut).

I have to warn you though: building a harem requires massive amounts of game, and you need to be honest with each and every one of the women you'd like to get with.

What these dorks on Reddit don’t understand is that there are women that would be into this, but because of the shame that would be thrown at them by other women, the sisterhood, they keep it on the down low until they meet a man who is honest in communicating, is non judgmental (which is big) and gives them the choice.

No one likes to be made a fool of.

SithLordJediMaster · 2024-02-16T21:29:28+00:00

King Ismail of Morroco had over 600 sons or about 1171 kids.

tacoman0077 · 2024-02-16T20:59:20+00:00

https://youtu.be/V9owHXPPe_Q?si=bLcwf0Pe30YmIYb6

You’re welcome

DaygameCode · 2024-02-16T20:48:31+00:00

You do by getting a girlfriend that consents to be in a polygamous relationship with you. If a girl doesn’t consent to this then you break up and get a girlfriend who will consent.

boom-wham-slam · 2024-02-16T22:25:21+00:00

Well step one is either your current gf is supportive or you need to dump her. So go have a conversation with her.

VrilHunter · 2024-02-16T22:41:20+00:00

It's easiest to get another gf when you already have multiple gfs. It's hardest to make your gf population from 1 to 2.

Convincing the first that there will be a second women is going to be difficulty level : hell , given that you havent even found the second one yet (assuming you want all of them to be monogamous with only you).

The best way is to let your first gf know that there will be other women in your life in the beginning itself and maybe you'll convince her. You'll lose her definitely if you bring this up much later in your relationship. This way you're neither lying nor cheating. But the problem is most women would not agree to this. So, first you have to be man of above average value to attain an above average relationship style with a roster of gfs (money, status, power, whatever else) and you have to find the first girl who is so heads over heels for you that she would agree to this willingly. Believe me, it's not going to be cakewalk.

I have a feeling you want to live like a king. If you want wives like a king, then you must also have value like a king.

Sidenote: what most rich/powerful people do in today's age is to have a wife and multiple mistresses on the side (maybe the wife knows or maybe not, but it's definitely hidden from the society) since living like a king is very impractical now.

Edit : even if you convince all of your wives, it's still impossible to put all of them and all of their kids in the same house, socially. They wont stand each other and it'll be a dumpster fire. The only way you can maintain this highly complex dynamic running in the long run is to keep them away from each other, but being aware of each other.

2024-02-17T01:55:13+00:00

Become as wise as King Solomon and it should work

alone_sheep · 2024-02-17T02:19:29+00:00

Be open about it from the get go. There are some women who will even help you with this. In fact thats specifically that girl you're looking for. A bi girl that wants to have this with you. It is rare but it exists.

Quick-Geologist-9121 · 2024-02-16T20:48:40+00:00

Unfortunately you either have to tell her that you want an open relationship (which I’m guessing you won’t do because that implies that she would hook up with others too, unless of course you can convince her otherwise) or you have to take the dickhead route and secretly date other women which would essentially mean leading a second life and guarding your phone like a hawk at all times. Long story short it never ends well unless she’s on board with the open relationship idea

Coaster2Coaster · 2024-02-17T00:53:13+00:00

Mate, I hate to break it to you, you're not that special. Even if you're a millionaire, nobody really gives that much of a shit about you. You seem to be under the misapprehension that having more children will somehow increase your happiness or status. Statistics tell us this is not true.

What I would do, if I was you, would be to focus on finding one girl who can give you a family and then really cherish them. It's not the quantity, it's the quality.

As an aside, just reading your other posts, you seem a bit lost. I would consider reading some books about self-esteem and what it means to live a good life, maybe throw some stoicism in for good measure. Cheers.

Maleficent-Raise1271 · 2024-02-16T21:41:57+00:00

That’s so messed up. MEN ARE SICK PIGS. STOP

UberPootis69 · 2024-02-16T23:48:08+00:00

stop being a cheater

bennettca3 · 2024-02-16T21:33:53+00:00

Just date other women. She doesn’t need to know 😂.

Adventurous-Poem-403 · 2024-02-16T20:47:19+00:00

i know its not what you asked for but the first thing that came to my mind was the nike commercial on family guy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T2w5SQ0L65I

TheCaribbeanRedditor · 2024-02-17T03:57:34+00:00

First off you need to be with someone who doesn't mind non-monogamy. Have you even spoken to your gf about this?

rohit969 · 2024-02-17T08:52:28+00:00

Multiple sources of income wont be enough as your girlfriend wont be open to the thought of sharing you. For her to be open to the thought of sharing you, you will need to have not only high absolute value(money) but also very high relative value(social).

Ok-Cardiologist8651 · 2024-02-19T03:03:05+00:00

I don't know what your definition of valuing your reputation would be. What sort of manly value goes with being a bad parent. You can't maintain a healthy relationship with children you see only occasionally. And the more children you have with your various and numerous 'girlfriends' the less time you would have to give to each child. Those children would have some friends with real fathers and they would soon be making the comparison. A real caring father not some horny 'king' who is basically an itinerant sperm donor like a male squirrel depositing his 'seed' far and wide. Where is the value and quality in that? And how long before those multiple gfs would be looking around and meeting men who could offer them more? The sort of woman who would accept this would be the sort to easily trade up.

This sounds like the fantasy of a boy. Maybe it would be enough for someone very shallow but you cannot have a deep and satisfying relationship with numerous people. Call it playing around and admit to being a horny boy and if you are shallow enough you will be satisfied with a schoolboy's idea of the good life. Depth isn't for everyone and maybe you will be just as happy as that squirrel.

Title	obtaining multiple gfs
Author	Maleficent-Raise1271
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Comments	73
Date	February 16, 2024 8:37 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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