One word. Indifference.

almighty_nsa · 2022-02-06T00:09:37+00:00

Indifference is not enough for attraction to happen. Are you attracted to every girl that doesn’t care about you ? No. Thats why it wont work on women either. If you ask me it’s the mixture of courage/indifference/persistence that does the trick.

mercush · 2022-02-06T00:34:36+00:00

It's not so much indifference as it is outcome independence. You can like a person without needing them.

Being indifferent you'll be boring.

Don't remember who said it but the man who gets the girl is the one who's the most engaged, but least attached.

GeorgeKaplanIsReal · 2022-02-06T00:49:25+00:00

I think people forget one thing about getting laid: it's not that hard.

(That's what she said, oh wait...)

Jokes aside. The best advice I got well over a decade ago and the best advice I can give is to put yourself out there and live. Join a gym, dine in once and a while (instead of taking food to go), go to a bar on the weekend, join a social activities group, etc.

Over time you'll become more and more comfortable being who you are. Instead of being who you think you should be. You won't be obsessed with trying to remember some stupid line, some calculated approach. You'll feel naturally comfortable as yourself. You'll behave and converse more naturally.. again as yourself.

And yes, you'll find somebody to get freaky with. Because it's a numbers game and because the more you are out there, the more likely you are to run into somebody(s) that digs you and vice versa (or not). It may not be with a supermodel or a 10/10. But overtime, if you keep trying, you'll manage to bag some of those too.

And I get it putting yourself out there is hard. It can be awkward and uncomfortable. But again over time, it does get easier. If you feel like there are some anxiety/mental health related issues, then talk to a therapist. Consider medication. You don't need to share these kinds of things with the world (and in fact I'd encourage against), but there is nothing to be ashamed of getting help for yourself.

tl;dr don't go out looking to get laid. Just go out to enjoy life, be active and during that journey, you'll most likely find people who will want you.

SuaveFuck · 2022-02-06T00:19:56+00:00

yeah ok. now we only need to find out which measurement of indifference works with what girl. because as it happens, be indifferent a bit too hard and a moment too long, SHE'll be indifferent towards you. and move on. forever. so...?

Angel-McLeod · 2022-02-05T23:57:41+00:00

Two words. I can’t count.

DontTakePeopleSrsly · 2022-02-06T01:13:12+00:00

It works in small doses, or on the weak minded.

Lord_Augastus · 2022-02-06T13:55:49+00:00

lol wut, any quality woman is just going o ignore you if you are 'indifferent', have opinions and thoughts, dont be a doormat...

JetPillar · 2022-02-06T01:58:14+00:00

That only works on people who have no concept of self worth

danifearless · 2022-02-06T14:27:57+00:00

But who wants to be indifferent. I want to taste life. Not be numb to it

Dismal_Ad_7089 · 2022-02-06T17:24:48+00:00

I’m a fukn nutshell, can we have a round of applause 👏🏼

Title	One word. Indifference.
Author	OperationSurvive
Upvotes	25
Comments	39
Date	February 5, 2022 11:51 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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