Please help! 20[M] why is my dick not acting up?

IzzatQQDir · 2024-02-20T09:47:51+00:00

I find that when I change my lifestyle, like I exercise and stuff, my libido is through the roof.

I think it's also something that you conditioned yourself into? Sedentary lifestyles make your life mundane. At least for me.

It got harder as I age, not just to actually start exercising, but to even set some time for it. As you are still young, you should really take care of your body.

Life is a bitch. Time is precious.

Emotional_Service758 · 2024-02-20T12:46:02+00:00

As the other guys commented, don't pay too much attention to it. As long as you can get it up during sex

But you can always boost your libido and testosterone which I have. I'm 29 and I feel 16

Supplement I take:

Pine pollen

Tongkat ali

Maca root

Zinc and magnesium

L-Citrulline

I also reduced caffeine and within a week I was getting random boners.

Jolly-Jaguar8664 · 2024-02-20T08:35:11+00:00

You conditioned yourself to avoid porn. Probably your brain registers your girlfriends nudes as porn on an sub-conscious level, as the "thing that has to be avoided" and therefore you have a harder time to get it up. Don't worry, nothing wrong with you healthwise.

Generic-username15 · 2024-02-20T09:19:11+00:00

Sounds like you should go to the specialist of some kind. I might be wrong but if this is the thing in your mind sexuologist could help you sort this out.

Significant-666 · 2024-02-20T13:28:20+00:00

Your testosterone is low. Do a blood test and check.

mkkpt · 2024-02-20T14:42:43+00:00

Go see a Doctor, tell them the issue and get it investigated, just to be safe. There are some health issues that could cause this, get it ruled out.

Stress is a common cause of sexual dysfunction. Other causes include:

sexual trauma

psychological issues

diabetes

heart disease or other medical conditions

drug use

nerve damage

alcohol use

certain medications

AllishG · 2024-02-20T16:30:11+00:00

It's just like Drugs...When you get off , First it's bad , than it keeps geeting Normal , but Life feels Dull and not worth it...if you keep going and doing some things , the colours come back...

Good Luck...👍

meetmehra · 2024-02-20T14:00:11+00:00

Takes time, You will be fine.

My_Cock_Is_Throbbing · 2024-02-20T17:20:25+00:00

I was like this except i had no libido at all. Got my testosterone checked and it was below the min. If it keeps up i suggest maybe see a doctor.

enositis26 · 2024-02-20T17:32:00+00:00

If you are watching porn... Stop immediately, unfollow all Instagram models, and avoid exposure to naked women all around. Have up to one coffee a day, avoid alcohol.eat red meat and eggs and nuts. Don't fap for 3 weeks minimum.

Release stress (find a way) Exercise and sleep 7-8 h everyday. Have a routine...

Talk to your girlfriend so you are not worried all the time. If she loves you she will understand. If you try forcing it it will be worse getting it up with her. Come back in 4 weeks and tell us the results

tibberhopolmbx · 2024-02-20T19:40:42+00:00

It sounds like you are in love and you need to be near her . Also I agree with the low testosterone. You may also need to start doing things that are unfamiliar to you, put yourself in uncomfortable situations, work out

Lendari · 2024-02-21T00:48:30+00:00

Take a multivitamin, get some exercise and if it doesn't get better see a doctor. Especially if youre taking other medicine. It might be a known side effect.

alienhood · 2024-02-21T00:51:34+00:00

U asked too many questions, too fast. U F’d around and FOUND OUT

jack_sparow17 · 2024-02-21T11:55:29+00:00

Stress could be a factor. Try meditation. Eat healthy, avoid fast food. Drink plenty of water. Eat mineral rich foods, pumpkin seeds, chia seeds, omega 3, etc. Blueberries, beetroot can help too.

RandoRambo1 · 2024-02-20T12:05:25+00:00

I used to have this problem when I was competing in bodybuilding and was too lean. My test was GONE for like 1-2 months before a show and had a few girls where this problem happened. Once I gained weight after -show and going into the off season (testosterone increased), and my libido came back. This probably has to do with hormone levels tbh get checked.

thatdood87 · 2024-02-20T12:56:33+00:00

It's that masturbation.

You tricked your man into thinking the hand is mightier than an actual woman, it's what your brain think it needs now, no longer the presence of a woman.

Stop all porn and masturbation, depending on the severity of it, abstain for 3 months. Maybe longer, and if u do this my friend you WILL get better.

Awkward_Freedom_4551 · 2024-02-22T18:19:40+00:00

Get some sildenafil, keep it for emergencies.

Alone_Ad8207 · 2024-02-23T13:40:46+00:00

You are not going to find relevant answers on a seduction sub. This is a medical and sexology question, it’s best if you go see a doctor and not follow the advice of random strangers on the internets.

Title	Please help! 20[M] why is my dick not acting up?
Author	EquipmentJunior16
Upvotes	47
Comments	36
Date	February 20, 2024 7:40 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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