Potential 3some need help

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drunkenpossum · 2026-05-20T19:30:36+00:00

I had a stroke trying to read this

CibrecaNA · 2026-05-20T19:59:22+00:00

Go with option upfront. Say you can handle both. If she says na, then whatever. You dodged a 6. If she says yeah then you have a willing 3sum. Your idea has its flaws, they can cancel or her friend can cock block you or leave. If you say you can handle both, only negative is if the friend dips or the 6 dips, which isn't really a negative depending on what you want.

EvadingTaxes · 2026-05-20T18:37:02+00:00

Go for it

Then_North_6347 · 2026-05-20T18:53:58+00:00

The big challenge there is female jealousy. The 6 might be cool with it. Or not.

thealt3001 · 2026-05-20T19:55:56+00:00

Just be straight up to an extent. Tell her that you don't have a homie, but both her and her friend are fine af and they can both sleep over. They'll catch your drift.

ChicoBrillo · 2026-05-21T02:17:55+00:00

That's not gonna work at all bro lol esp trying to be slick and pull a bait and switch at the end

Alternative-Mud4739 · 2026-05-20T20:37:08+00:00

Bro turned seduction into basketball lmao. 3 point shot 😂 I'm dead

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2026-05-20T21:39:14+00:00

ehh this plan has a lot of flaws. Honestly id say dont expect much, because at the bar her friend could go to someone else. Her friend could get bored and now night ruined, etc.

Id say this, focus on your girl, but also entertain the other one too. Dance, get them drinks, group dance, etc.

Dont give any inclination on a 3-some throughout the night. Read their body language. Dont force the affection. But encourage it through your body language. Dancing on the floor, let the fried grind on you, etc. Then when you get back home, encourage a game. Get them comfortable. MNake sure they are having fun first and then make your move on your girl. See if the other girl feels comfortable and is enjoying it. Encourage the 6 to kiss her friend, or get closer to her friend. And read the vibe, if they are into it then you make your move.

space_lizards · 2026-05-20T23:55:18+00:00

You gotta be bold to initiate the threesome. My first threesome me, my girlfriend and her friend (also female) were chilling on my bed and were getting ready to go clubbing and just before we got up to leave I said "before we head off" and then leaned in and made out with her friend. I then said "we'll talk about this more when we get back" to build the anticipation and my girl loved it Like she was going crazy. Now ill admit i had the advantage of already knowing my girl wanted a threesome and she knows im a dawg that will hit on other girls so I was safe in that department but you kinda have the same thing going with the fact that theyre keen to stay over.

So you gotta be bold and cheeky at the same time. Make a joke about playing spin the bottle or truth or dare and let the passion simmer and then a bit later you can bring it back up like "alright girls sit on the floor, we're playing spin the bottle". You can also tease like the occasional "why are you looking at me like that? I think you like me!" Accusation type comments can work. You can also just out of the blue ask them questions that imply youre freaky. I know "confidence is key" is spammed everywhere but you really gotta take charge and not pussyfoot around.

Darth_Abe · 2026-05-21T17:47:49+00:00

Why? If you’re not in the mood. Then don’t bother. But I think they’ll catch on with the “chickened out last minute” imo.

norwegiandoggo · 2026-05-20T19:03:49+00:00

Could work, why not.

Voljinzzz · 2026-05-21T04:04:07+00:00

Do you think they are dumb?

MineDesperate2920 · 2026-05-21T13:59:36+00:00

Send it if u don’t care

Play-Mation · 2026-05-21T23:34:28+00:00

Where’s the update OP?

Ok-Butterscotch2321 · 2026-05-22T03:02:00+00:00

Don't bullshit that you "have a friend"...

Title	Potential 3some need help
Author	anoddabanga
Upvotes	8
Comments	22
Date	May 20, 2026 6:31 PM UTC (2 months ago)
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