We all have to practice our conversation skills. We need to learn how to make small talk, have an interest conversation, have things to say, be funny and so on.

But doing so with women we are attracted to can be be intimidating and even self defeating when we are not yet good at it. Some men are so shy and anxious when talking to women that they never do it. And so never develop their conversation skills.

If that's your case, you should start talking with men before talking to women. Talking to strangers, co-workers, relatives and trying to make new friends, when they are men and there is no sexual interest involved, is much easier to do.

So practice being a good conversationalist and learn to be more social and open with men so that your develop your social skills. That way, you can later apply those skills when talking to the women you are interested in. Go practice !