PUA is nonsense

antiquatedipad · 2019-12-30T16:08:38+00:00

You're kind of right. If you have a brilliant life with money and a good social life and stuff, then you will have girls who make it easy for you. They'll kind of 'appear' in your life through your work/social club/friends group etc. They may or may no be the girls you want/find attractive, but yeah, just getting laid isn't necessarily that hard

But with cold approach - (which is what this sub is mainly about) all of them methods are there because PUA's are trying to 'create' attraction where there may be none with a stranger. (e.g - she doesn't think you are good looking). Cold approach is about spotting a super hot young girl as, maybe a much older, ugly dude. You want to bang her (naturally). You know she isn't physically attracted (she thinks you're an ugly old man), So you approach and do your stuff with the various techniques you've read to change her mind

So PUA's make up all this stuff (negs, disqualify, DHV's, routines, self amusement, 'inner game love yourself' stuff etc etc) to try to force attraction in her which obviously works no better than if a girl tried doing that to you lol

I'ts a business. Never forget that. It's an unregulated business where 'coaches' can claim what they want and lie out of their teeth and sell you their nonsense.

smgtn · 2019-12-30T16:25:17+00:00

Is that, simply put, if you have most of your life together, getting girls is not that difficult.

Yeah, not even this. I've seen girls chase after worthless junkies just because they had a nice face and literally nothing else.

0001none · 2019-12-30T17:07:06+00:00

I rarely see anyone on this sub who thinks what you attributed to PUAs. 90 percent of posts are about your last line, except they go in far more detail. you're adding nothing.

PiperBigBell · 2019-12-30T16:39:55+00:00

Dude. . .

. Modern pickup has nothing to do with routines or pickup lines. I don't know what you've been studying. Second, layering your text messages in certain orders does have a certain effect. It's not w guarantee but it gets you from point a to point b. Plenty of men have their shit together but don't know how to talk to women, which is why game exists. Subs like thir exist. To learn things like how to pull to your place, create sexual tension, have sex appeal, having a good mouth piece, etc.

hunterpua · 2019-12-30T18:19:10+00:00

You just described a method that was taught more than a decade ago.

Of course the PUAs of today know that stuff is nonsense.

Its like saying the internet is nonsense and then proceeding to describe dial-up. 🤷‍♂️

john18809 · 2019-12-30T23:25:50+00:00

I agreed with you up until the last line. Getting girls is not easy for those outside the top 20% of males. It used to be easy, but dating apps and our degenerate society have ruined pair bonding between men and women.

Seducti0nThr0waway · 2019-12-31T09:51:58+00:00

I agree that the memorization approach is dumb, but you're entirely missing the point.

Ice666White · 2019-12-30T16:19:54+00:00

Pretty much.

The dummies follow these 'routines' because they were always like 'wat do i do now wat do i do pls wat do i do'.

A lot of guys on this subreddit need some initiative. I see so much crap.

codewizbambam · 2019-12-31T00:27:12+00:00

Honestly, you got it all wrong. Go away.

Hubblenobbin · 2019-12-31T08:08:07+00:00

Your mom is nonsense

stefan901 · 2019-12-30T17:05:50+00:00

What does having most of your life together look like? Lots of money, big social circle, fit body, nice car, cool hobbies? Be more specific

SoPittedBro · 2019-12-30T18:29:14+00:00

Hey dude please don’t post again and also kys

grrinchas · 2019-12-30T18:10:41+00:00

I like these kind of arguments:

PUA is nonsense.

Well I have contra argument:

No, it is not.

It simple as that. If you apply PUA tactics you will get girls.

Title	PUA is nonsense
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Date	December 30, 2019 4:04 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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