qualification not working well?

epimpstyle · 2025-06-25T17:56:15+00:00

Qualification must be done ONLY AFTER she is "hooked". A bunch of seduction concepts must be used after she is hooked, not before!

jackthehat6 · 2025-06-25T18:03:13+00:00

despite what pickup coaches tell you, a girl won't qualify herself to you unless she is attracted to you. As with basically everything in game, it works IF you are her type. So opening with that, even if it's what the books say to do, will only work if she thinks you're hot

Jironasaurus · 2025-06-25T18:19:31+00:00

Imagine Maurice Moss from The IT Crowd using that line on a woman.

The likelihood of it working is almost zero, because he would have almost no "creds" just based on his look. So it's either your vibe or look that's the issue here. Fix that, and you'll get a better response.

HomelessMilkman · 2025-06-26T07:35:42+00:00

Frankly, if you're walking up with your pre-canned line and the girl is able to reflexively drop a bomb like this:

'i'm not interesting. Or interestED. Byeeeee'

You didn't make a dent; she saw the impact coming and 'Mr. Miyagi'd' that shit. She's not going to be chasing you when she is fundamentally the fun and interesting one.

You have to be bringing more to the table than that, which ultimately makes it moot. When the girl sees you deliver the line half-heartedly, unsure of yourself, they know you're not holding back a barrage of interesting and amusing content they're missing out on; they're not on the edge of their seat eager to hear more.

There has to be something engaging, enticing, 'attractive' about what you're putting out. Namely, your delivery, your enthusiasm, fully engaging and immersing yourself in the moment. They have to struggle to keep up with you, not hit you with the auto-parry.

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-06-26T22:01:40+00:00

Qualification will only work if she wants to qualify to you . Meaning there has to be not only social reciprocity, there should be emotional investment from her part . It's far from being a magic solution to open. The closest thing I have found to the magic opener that always opens is to create a story on why you're talking to her . Giving compliments isn't really efficient either .

Anonymous-Man-2024 · 2025-06-26T02:34:53+00:00

Like 'hi, I thought you looked nice but wanted to make sure you were also interesting'

Good lord.

Title	qualification not working well?
Author	barlowaplesand
Upvotes	5
Comments	23
Date	June 25, 2025 5:34 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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