I’ve got charisma, a good story, and a decent sense of humor, and I generally don’t have trouble approaching girls. But I’d like to hear from more experienced guys – what’s worked better for you in situations where you’re meeting a girl briefly on the street or in public, just for a quick 5-minute conversation to get to know each other a bit and maybe exchange contact info?

1.  Go all in from the start – be talkative, funny, confident, and show your full personality right away. This can leave a strong impression, but it might come off as too much or too intense in such a short time? 2.  Play it cool and low-key – stay calm, don’t say too much, keep a bit of mystery, and save the real personality reveal for a potential date later on?

I know a lot depends on the girl and the vibe, but in general – what’s worked better for you in practice?