My pipe line is a little dry at the minute which is fine, it ebbs and flows.

I was wondering if it's a good idea to reach out to some old leads that fizzled out. There are a few I could do, things ended for a mixture of the following reasons:

- I overchased and got needy and she lost interest

- I rejected them because I lost interest

- I didn't want to be exlcusive at the time and things fizzled out/they rejected me because of that

- Timing thing; They went travelling for a long time (months) or moved to a different city

- Things fizzled ambiguously with no one party being more in the 'rejection' seat

Most of these leads I haven't spoken to in between 3-6 months. In general it seems like a kind of no risk kind of thing that could bounce back some leads, it doesn't matter if none of it works tbh. I've found that girls rarely take initiative to reach back out and are overwhelmed with options or just go through long periods of not dating at all.

I'm only contacting ones where there was strong mutual attraction and interest at *some* point, even if that faded later.

To be clear I'm not really attached to the outcome, so I don't need to do this, it doesn't really matter. But if I want to maximise potential future chances with these women is it best to continue to leave them in no contact or send a casual 'hows life' ping?