Reinventing and fixing my identity

LunarNinja_ · 2025-12-16T00:44:26+00:00

Just don't fall into the trap of setting too many expectations too high.

To seduce women you don't necessarily need to have everything in order. Furthermore, if your goals are casual relationships, you should actually start going on dates now, if not already to practice your skills.

viksrini7 · 2025-12-16T00:44:13+00:00

Love it man working towards a lot of the same things

tlnayaje · 2025-12-16T04:48:30+00:00

Aw man you sound like me 4 years ago :) <3

Dandys3107 · 2025-12-16T04:59:08+00:00

I would suggest to start with easy improvements, which you can callibrate instantly or embark some easy routine or easy goal to achieve. Creating your own effective seduction strategy takes much time if you start from zero, take it step by step and don't skip things that may be irrelevant or minor, women look at everything when evaluating their potential partner. It's fine to keep your framework, you are now certain in whicih direction you go, but you need to focus on these small steps, appearance, clothes, exercising etc. If you pay enough attention to these things before you start your seduction quest with real girls, you will surely have a head start and don't be suprised when many girls reciprocate your interest, looking at the guy that knows his style anad worth and take extra care of himself. Also, think about your most attractive trait that you feel natural with and keep improving and exposing it the world more often. Then will come a more tricky part of gaming a stranger girl for getting in bed with you, but don't worry too much, again you should use small steps rules and start with casual social banter without any intimate context or even simply give away some eye contacts, smile, maybe compliments. When you get into this social, ecstatic state, it will be much easier to lead the interaction to whatever direction you want, but let's save the details after you catch up to this point. For now, think how you can easily and quickly raise your sexually attractive feature, in every aspect you can come up with.

hothoneys · 2025-12-16T12:09:08+00:00

Focusing on health and confidence will definitely attract the right people.

InvestigatorFull1364 · 2025-12-16T19:33:03+00:00

Do you need a bazooka to kill a fly?

People have gotten laid with non of these.

If you wanna do them, do them as their own ends and as a result of self respect.

You are already sabotaging yourself by building in wrong foundations.

For example if you ever have a revulsion phase (for a bad string of rejections for example). Your foundation (girls -> improvement) will turn to (bitches -> improvement) to (who cares -> improvement) to (give up).

Sounds extreme? Probably more likely scenario than you think if you build like that

epimpstyle · 2025-12-16T16:16:10+00:00

Isn't it ridiculous to change your whole life just to be able to say 'hi' to a girl?

Title	Reinventing and fixing my identity
Author	Life_Peace_7520
Upvotes	16
Comments	18
Date	December 16, 2025 12:32 AM UTC (7 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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