Rejections keep getting to me.

MayhemReignsTV · 2024-05-07T00:38:28+00:00

From what I see, jacked bald dudes are in. If you get into good shape and don't give them too much attention, they are going to notice you. What do you have to work on from there is your openers. You don't just go up and approach. One way I have done it is if I'm standing around waiting somewhere and observe something noteworthy, I'll start a conversation with the person next to me. Doesn't matter if it's a pretty girl or not. But do also hit the pretty girls. and conduct the conversation in the same manner that you did with dudes and girls you were not attracted to.

Once you start getting positive reaction from casual social encounters, the same things will work on pretty girls. They don't walk on water. But they are used to people worshiping them rather than actually trying to legitimately have a conversation with them. Sometimes they won't know what to do for a second but then you won't be able to keep them quiet, especially if you're perceptive enough that the conversation ended up being about something she was interested in. Sometimes you'll swing and mess with that but it improves your overall social skills.

burncushlikewood · 2024-05-07T04:29:54+00:00

It sounds like you're really lacking confidence man, you're making close to 100k and you're 6'5, women love tall men, you're exercising, and there's always going to be women that are similar in looks to you. Stop playing the victim mentality and complaining, be positive and keep at it, I was a virgin, no game, just like you at some point before I got into this community, it took me 4 years of studying pick up before I got really good at it, i did 100s of approaches, watched countless videos, read books, and implemented new techniques all from high school till first year of university.

mooreba2 · 2024-05-07T04:08:16+00:00

Most of these comments are shitting too hard on you. Idk exactly what you look like, but you can absolutely approach chicks introduce yourself and have a conversation without it being weird or off putting if your smiling and just being friendly.

Idk how uncomfortable or awkward you’re coming across but if you’re approaching strong and then they’re acting like that then I hate to break it to you but your appearance needs to change in some way

ROBYoutube · 2024-05-07T00:27:23+00:00

You go out with your friends and come home massively depressed? My dude. What a waste of life. Anyway, did you ever consider that what you are doing is massively offputting to women? I think you nearly do, with what you said here:

The worst is when I approach and then they look funny and turn away.

Women don't fucking like this, dude. You're a massive, hulking bald dude they don't know. They are going to start off absolutely terrified of you. Multiply that fear by 50 if you're full of nervous, serious, un-fun, un-confident energy. Does this make sense to you?

Dynamix86 · 2024-05-07T07:42:59+00:00

Buy a big golden chain and wear that. The bitches are much more receptive when they see you have money

Electronic_Umpire893 · 2024-05-07T16:59:59+00:00

As a dude with severe ADHD I'm always switching topics with conversation at play. Using my hands to emphasis different interests, changing my tone of voice, and keeping a smile on my face makes it so that people enjoy talking to me and follow my excitement. I'm like a 6 attractively with an average but slimmer body, but being weird and quirky? helps because you're both interesting and entertaining even if they don't catch a romantic interest in you.

Title	Rejections keep getting to me.
Author	GlitteringJob4083
Upvotes	18
Comments	20
Date	May 7, 2024 12:20 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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