Well, thanks—in part—to the awesome advice seddit has to offer, I've learned how to approach women.
Not only approach, but I practically always have good results in conversation. They're laughing, talking like crazy... I can tell they're definitely attracted to me.
It's insane how this stuff changes your life. Before I started, I was pretty damn introverted. Now I'm the opposite, and have no problems starting conversations and having a blast with new people.
Problem is, I've evolved conversationally (and emotionally), but I feel like I'm still in a shell physically. I LOVE it when girls touch me. I can't get enough of it. But I know I give out a very "closed" vibe. It's because I'm nervous about touching girls.
I'm nervous they'll think I'm "making a move." I'm nervous that I'll touch them in a way that is awkward. If I do touch, I worry whether or not she thought it was creepy.
This does me absolutely no good. If I worry, it makes the touch creepy. I understand that if I was confident about what I was doing, it wouldn't be creepy at all. Additionally, it would open up my body language and make me receptive to touch – something I would absolutely love to have happen.
So how do you guys do it? I know it's possible, because I did this exact thing with the emotional side. I want to get to the point where I'm that comfortable physically.
I've heard from a lot of guys that being that "creepy touchy" guy is the way to go. Just touch like fucking crazy and almost try to be creepy.
Would you guys recommend this? It sounds great in theory, but when I'm with a girl, I find myself not pulling the trigger on it. Any tips to get me to that point when I'm actually with the girl?
Any tips appreciated, and thanks for all the incredible info – it's really changed my life for the better, in a big way.
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