Seddit vs other PUA platforms

kalolilo · 2017-06-30T10:22:46+00:00

In general it seems that Seddit thinks:

It's all about inner game

Nothing you say matters

You can't 'create' attraction

It's about having an exciting life (good well paid job etc) and the girls will come

That's not really the case, the opinion is that

Inner game is very important but not everything
It does matter what you say, but delivery matters more
Never heard this here that you can't create attraction. That doesn't make sense even.
Having an exciting life is the biggest driver for happiness and women's attention. But it is not all. You can fuck chicks with a shit life, but it is harder and the chicks you fuck are also not that high quality

Zhai · 2017-06-30T10:05:29+00:00

You can have hobbies and job, but you still have to go out there. Women are not going door to door asking who is a good catch.

IWriteForGroupies · 2017-06-30T11:09:56+00:00

I think most people forget to learn about their target. Seduction is about having a toolbox of skills that can be used at anytime.

Back to the target. When you want to get get better at math you study math and you practice it. The problem with math is that it can be broken down into many subjects. Women are the same. You study them but you focus more on the subjects that interest you. In math there are unsolvable problem just like there are impossible women.

Attraction is something I tell most guys not to focus on. Often attraction cannot be seen and some women will never know if they are attracted to you. I tell people that in order to succeed in seduction you have to try and have an open mind. Some one night stands aren't built off of attraction but being in the right place at the right time.

Good luck.

PowerSeductionWar · 2017-06-30T13:32:04+00:00

Seddit is only good for dipping your toes on the subject of pickup. Move on to RSD.

natephant · 2017-06-30T13:04:54+00:00

That's because other people are trying to sell you something. Even if it's just Ads on their site.

Yes there are psychological 'tricks' you can use to influence others... that's literally what an abusive relationship is... so it's one thing if you're just trying for a 1 night stand. But most guy eventually want some type of relationship... for that you need to either actually be interesting or pursue using these 'tricks' for an extended period of time... which in my opinion just makes you a manipulative abusive scumbag.

To each his own tho I guess.

thatgibbyguy · 2017-06-30T13:18:24+00:00

I mean, if one can't create attraction and what you say doesn't matter, and it's just about having money and a fun life and the girls will hopefully notice you, then there's really no need to have forums and bootcamps and books etc.

You're right on here and plus, if it were about money then how do all those dirtbags who stay with their parents still get girls? It is about what you say (or sometimes about what you don't say) and it is about being exciting, but it's not about money (though, that doesn't hurt).

marthdotsk · 2017-06-30T13:19:49+00:00

You can't 'create' attraction

I have to wonder why you keep on bringing this point constantly when most people will disagree with it.

Murfdigidy · 2017-06-30T15:26:17+00:00

I think some of the pua stuff is dated tbh, seddit is a live blog with new ideas and FRs every day. A lot to be said about that. With that said both will work, I've always maintained the belief that you find your niche and go with it. A quieter introvert guy may not want to use David deangelos cocky funny technique but those who use that technique have seen great results. It's kinda where I started, since I was naturally a goofy kinda guy.

So if you find a pua where you kinda like his techniques go with it, it's not to say that stuff won't work. But what works for one person won't work for another. We all have different personalities so you cater to the game that fits you best.

But as far as seddit, it's like golf, they say golf is 90% mental 10% physical. Same goes for seduction, it's all in your head and the frame you project is all mental. So no technique will be 100% affective if you don't have the foundation of frame. That confidence that says I am who I am, take it or leave it, accept that or move on and if you decide to move on good for you it wasn't meant to be.

Seddit seems to focus a lot on that but it may be too advanced for many because it tskes years to master inner game since it's so complex. If I'm a beginner or young like 18 I'm working on both inner game and pua techniques. The pua techniques will help you get girls and immediate results, inner game should continue to grow as you use those primitive techniques. Once you become so confident and a great seducer you begin to realize techniques are not needed, all that's needed is my confident true self. But that shit takes years so why not use pua techniques as you continue to grow

recipricating · 2017-06-30T10:20:04+00:00

This is inaccurate, with regards to me anyway. there are inner motivations that can keep you in the game strong in mind, and cock. then there are special techniques that create certain inevitable reactions that allow you to get the real hotties. Of course, people take advantage of that, while others can't make those techniques work if their life depended on it, and thats why they have better success with throwing their balls through whatever hole lets them fit, but its usually some boring guy. Even the guys who work out, eat right, and get a good haircut really only get whatever women approach them after seeing them socially or in a random bar. They don't actively get the ones they really want without it falling into their lap. however, this isnt most guys and there are no excuses in this game. if there is something that needs to be learned you have to learn it, or pay the price of your lack of understanding with a a dry and lonely feeling around your groin.

Once again, some people are born with it, the rest have to some learning to do, but who cares when its this fucking fun to play, right?

Woujo · 2017-06-30T12:14:13+00:00

OP something tells me you haven't approached anybody in the past month. Am I right?

Title	Seddit vs other PUA platforms
Author	coolsummers
Upvotes	8
Comments	29
Date	June 30, 2017 9:39 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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