First of all, I wanna thank everyone for the help that this community has already assisted me and many others, this can truly save someone's life and I never had the chance to thank you.

My case I would say is a little odd: I have good experience with women, already date a good amount and I would say I know my way around building a good relation with them. However, my biggest weakness is definetly the so called "approach anxiety".

Usually this is more visible when I go clubbing with my friends, sometimes the girls come to me, but when I try to take action it usually don't turn out perfect.

For this reason, I am in a phase of my live where I want to go club more, and more, because I feel that in those types of environment people usually are more receptible and friendly, and I want to train my approaches.

The problem is: from all my close friends, only 1 likes to go out too, and he has other groups of friends that like too. Usually I go out with him and his friends, but recently he appears to have lost interest in going out with me and goes with his other friends. This leaves me in a position where I don't know if:

  • I should go alone (I'm not very extroverted and would have to fight a lot to pull this off)

  • I should focus on making new friends who like to go out (I think I have to know someone pretty well before they call me to go out with them, so this would take time)

-I should focus on day game and try to practice my cold approaches (I heard people are usually less receptible than at night)

In your opinion what should be my course of action?