Someone hitting on your girl

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CoffeeandMJ · 2024-05-03T00:48:56+00:00

Assuming your girl doesn’t immediately say “this is my boyfriend”? You should definitely not just sit there and watch.

But you should absolutely play along.

I mean here’s a guy who is trying to get with the girl you’re currently sleeping with. I mean you guys are fucking. A girl who you have likely seen take a shit at some point.

The idea that this random stranger could take her from you should be so incredibly hilarious to you and her. If it’s not, there’s something wrong with YOUR relationship.

If she’s getting hit on she’s likely been hit on before, and it’s a compliment and you should let her have it. But you should be clear that you’re not going to just sit there and let her be taken from you. The absolute best way is to attack the situation is with humor, something the two of you will laugh about later.

Sure you could get all alpha and challenge the guy to a fight, but that’s probably going to end up poorly, so be smart instead and make it an inside joke between the two of you.

If the guy is too dense to know you’re having fun at his expense you can always just wrap your arm around her and start making out. She’s your fuckin girl lol.

chips_and_hummus · 2024-05-03T01:02:54+00:00

depends to an extent how much the girl is already yours. assuming it’s someone you’ve been seeing and you already know she’s into you, i wouldn’t do much, personally speaking. let him shoot his shot and know that she’s going to come back to me over some rando dude. last thing i would do is make a big deal/scene, or say anything directly to the other dude like “back off”.

epimpstyle · 2024-05-03T08:05:30+00:00

This happens a lot in bars, but when I see it, I just ask the girl I am talking to, "Are you okay? "Everything is fine?" and the guy will be like, "Oh, it's your boyfriend?" "Are you together?" and 99% of the time he leaves right then and there. Extremely rare he starts talking to me, but in that case I take the girl and make a few steps like I want to tell her something private, or buy a drink... things like that. It is that simple.

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-05-03T00:24:53+00:00

If you sit and watch you are essentially telling her you are the biggest cuck in the world, leaving your girl to fend of male competitors and potential rapists. Can't think of anything more lame than that.

Wing_Inevitable · 2024-05-03T00:39:50+00:00

There exist AMOG tactics .

I would fucking baby him(if you want an example there was “Love island “ episode where the Italian (David- I think) had this rival and he fucking when there and did everything in his power to help him ) . And then at home she gets like a h with no attention , and at the end make her apologise for even entertaining him .

But that is dog theory . And people think it is cruel so pick your poison .

Fuzzy-Bottle-4138 · 2024-05-03T00:50:02+00:00

Why would you date a girl that’s willing to blatantly flirt with other guys right in front of your face and not end it herself? And if she is why would you think sitting there and watching like a cuck is the best choice?

Dandys3107 · 2024-05-03T05:02:18+00:00

Let her prove her loyalty.

DPJKOG · 2024-05-03T06:28:52+00:00

When your partner respects you, they would decline such advances right away. However, some individuals enjoy the attention; it acts as a dopamine boost for them. Ultimately, it's crucial to have an open conversation with your partner about how such situations make you feel. Establishing clear boundaries can help foster a healthier relationship dynamic.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-05-03T00:56:51+00:00

I'm polyamorous. If she's into it, she can meet him later.

Title	Someone hitting on your girl
Author	Professional-Cup7694
Upvotes	4
Comments	17
Date	May 2, 2024 11:58 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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