So this chick I've been digging for a while accepts my invitation for drinks... Hour before we're supposed to leave, she flakes on me and tells me that it would be convenient to do it on Thursday instead of Tuesday. Well she flakes often so I tell her that it's unacceptable that she drops me an hour before the event... This is all by email by the way.

I tell her that I won't be going out with her on Thursday even if she were to beg. I tell her that flaking out on me is a sign of disrespect and that I really don't appreciate it. She emails me on Thursday and asks me if I'd still like to get a drink with her. I don't respond.

Friday, I send her an email (She's already left for the day) saying that "It's just coarse treatment for a guy who's sweet on you... I'd hate to see how you treat guys you dislike! That's all I'm saying about it."

I have the opportunity to recall the message and replace it with something else before Monday morning when she gets in and checks her email. Should I? Did I make a mistake by sending that last one?

Any advice is appreciated. Speedy advice is REALLY appreciated.

EDIT: Fuck nevermind... Recalling the message sends another email informing the individual that they are recalling the message. If she's got message preview on in Outlook she'll still be able to read it. /facepalm

EDIT #2: OK I recalled the message and just told her that she should let me know when she CAN make it so that I don't end up having to try to figure out her schedule and risk screwing up my night.

EDIT #3: OK surprisingly she still wants to go out for drinks... I'm wondering if I should explain to her that I was in a negative frame of mind due to my ex telling me I can't see my daughter anymore or if I should just leave it alone and forget about the negativity I gave her last week.