should i remind her

celwade · 2022-05-14T11:09:21+00:00

Let the weekend go by and if she doesn’t contact that’s okay life happens. A gentle way to encourage the get together is when you see her in person mention something you have been wanting to do or better yet something small and relatively short time frame 30-60 minutes she may have mentions she has been wanting to do. Or make up something unique and ask her to join you in the adventure.

To me this would be less likely to be seen as pushy, while taking the initiative that you are interested to learning more about her and having a small adventure.

In the past I have run into something similar (we both were very busy). I also know so many people love ice cream. If there is old fashion I cream shop tel her you have been wanting to grab a sweat treat at xyz and that it’s one of those experiences better shared with good company to lavish over fabulousness of the experience. ———-don’t try to be smooth. Be yourself. Even if you fumble or don’t express yourself exactly the way you envisioned. If she is even a little bit into you the stumble will not be a deterrent. Most people find those fumbles endearing and cute. Especially when they already have even a little thing/connection with another person.

Hope at least something in here helps you. To be your best and most confident you. Remember to smile with your eyes as well as with your teeth. Vulnerability is how you let new people in and falling short of what you want is not a failure but an opportunity to do you best you again and find those people that work best in your world.

Best of luck mate.

NineteenAD9 · 2022-05-14T11:39:24+00:00

Delete the number and move on. Stop trying to negotiate desire and attraction with women.

If she really wanted to go out with you, she wouldn't need a reminder.

celwade · 2022-05-14T11:10:59+00:00

Just read your last line of a joint you two will text this weekend. Depending on the exact expression of the communication she shared with you. She may be waiting for you to reach out to her as well if you have her number.

kiramdahanett · 2022-05-14T11:54:04+00:00

nothing wrong with a quick confirmation . in fact if the girl doesn't call & text all day to see if i'm still down to meet , i always make a quick 20 second call to confirm .

"hey X , just wanted to check if ur cool with our 8pm date tonight."

Skill-Additional · 2022-05-14T10:44:38+00:00

Just say, “It seems like your not interested in taking this any further?” With genuine curiosity in your tone or voice.

drewcer · 2022-05-14T11:01:40+00:00

Make a joke about it while calling her out. She said she'd text you, then didn't.

You don't want to come off as butthurt about it but you also want to let her know the ball was in her court and she dropped it.

Alternatively you could tell her, "Hey if you don't want to hang out I'd totally understand, just tell me straight up so there's no confusion. I don't want to push anything if it's not natural."

Make sure there is zero neediness or but-hurtedness in your voice as you say this, like you were curious to see what she was like on a romantic date but if she's not into it you don't even want it.

tinkerbilly · 2022-05-14T11:43:33+00:00

She’s waiting on you to text first.

Suspicious-Bid-9583 · 2022-05-14T19:54:03+00:00

Dude u fk'd up right from the start. U don't shit where u eat. Going after co-workers is generally a bad idea(unless u have high comparability,which I'm guessing u don't since she ghosted u)

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-05-14T22:58:37+00:00

She’s seeing someone else

Title	should i remind her
Author	viralb0y
Upvotes	2
Comments	19
Date	May 14, 2022 10:17 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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