Should you only move on after an explicit rejection?

Carlitos96 · 2017-07-06T03:35:40+00:00

I say ask her on a date. She could be doing this to see if your a needy person or she's just busy.

AR-47 · 2017-07-06T04:02:37+00:00

I'd just go for the date. If she ghosts you, wait a few days and ask again like nothing happened. If she still ignores, move on.

chaosandmayhem · 2017-07-06T04:30:27+00:00

No. Ask her out, if she doesn't respond, move on. I have a very strong boundary about wasting time, so I'll generally send two/three texts max if she's not responding.

DirkDieGurke · 2017-07-06T06:04:40+00:00

No. You don't want somebody that has such low interest from the start.

ExtraCheesePlease88 · 2017-07-06T07:44:45+00:00

Been thru it all, it's either she has a man, and just wanted a night of fun, or she's really busy, but even if she is "really busy" think about how often people are on their phones. Also could've been what you texted her. What have you texted her so far, and her replies?

Usually if you've tried several times to get a good convo going, and she's still taking time to reply, I'd say just move on. Message her in a week or so, but don't expect anything.

moontripper1246 · 2017-07-06T18:05:47+00:00

I thought your post was gonna be about how you approach some chick and she said no but you were like "I've gotta get a hard no!" And you made her slap you in the face. so i was GONNA say, you can feel a vibe and if a girl is unresponsive and obviously wants you to go away, just save her the trouble and leave and find a nicer girl.

But that's about a different situation. In YOUR situation, ust keep texting. Don't ask her any questions though, unless they're SUPER invasive and personal. Send her a funny/stupid meme every few days. then when the weekend nears tell her that you want to see her, and she should meet you at xx place on friday at 9, or whatever whenever. If she doesn't go, do the same thing 2 more times 2 weeks in a row and THEN give up or start sending ridiculous bullshit.

You don't need an immediate response to a text. It can take days or even weeks. As long as you can get her to respond at all, its on. Texting is only to arrange a meet up, that's it. Arrange a meet up.

xeneize93 · 2017-07-06T19:32:30+00:00

Don't double text, she doesn't seem interested so just ask her out if she doesn't reply move on.

Title	Should you only move on after an explicit rejection?
Author	bugxter
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	July 6, 2017 2:04 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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