so basically i'm dumb.

sheepboy8804 · 2022-07-18T14:10:54+00:00

This is the problem with a lot of guys .. the fucked up voices in your heads talk you into a dark lifestyle then by the time many of you realize it, its too late …

Grappleheart · 2022-07-18T13:17:00+00:00

I would say you haven't wasted that much time. The reason being your teenage years are for development. And your mentality would have stopped you from doing anything anyway.

You used your looks as an excuse to not talk to women. I did the same thing. I used my height, my race and my body fat percentage as excuses (I am only 20%bf btw). But then when I saw a morbidly obese man date a girl I though was hot I realized I wasn't that bad. There are no excuses for not approaching. If you approach enough eventually you will get some traction.

You are only 23 and still have plenty of time to get out there and date.

clutchutch · 2022-07-18T14:13:27+00:00

You’re only 23, plenty of time man

stanthemilkman88 · 2022-07-18T12:04:39+00:00

Check out rian stone. He has actual good takes. Youtube rian stone side bar. Are you in shape or a fat fuck? If fat fuck then that your first thing you work on.

xiosy · 2022-07-18T13:13:31+00:00

Im also 23 it’s not the end we are still at the beginning we can still get a lot of girls till we marry in like 7 years

futuremo · 2022-07-18T15:07:43+00:00

You should read the ama by Mark Manson in the sidebar, I think it'd help you a lot

invaderjif · 2022-07-18T17:28:00+00:00

The best day to plant a tree/start investing/working out was 10 years ago.

The next best day is today.

Calamity__Bane · 2022-07-18T18:24:02+00:00

All good man, best time to start is now. Keep in mind that the vast majority of people don’t practice these skills to the point of mastery, most people wait until they’re just good enough at something to solve whatever immediate problem is bugging them. If you put in enough consistent, solid practice, you’ll not only catch up, you’ll blow way past the average.

Additional_Ad3904 · 2022-07-18T14:34:07+00:00

Guys what can I say it will be hard as heck to get a girl now i'm almost like a teenager in relationships so i'm fucked again. Damn, had no one to learn how to get girls.

Additional_Ad3904 · 2022-07-18T14:49:38+00:00

I'm thinking of just starting to approach random girls, iniciate conversațional and see what works and not, then I should learn flirting from somewhere cause even that ain't coming naturally to me

P7o7s7t7a7l · 2022-07-18T14:48:35+00:00

You have a lot of life ahead of you at 23. Adjust your attitude, so when you do talk to women the conversation isn't bogged down by the past. Try to set a goal, keep your mind going forward and don't be afraid to tell girls what you're doing. That's the easiest way to talk to them.

zenboy_69 · 2022-07-18T21:44:38+00:00

The past ten years? So since you were 13? Dude, no-one cares what your lovelife was like in highschool and neither should you. Get out there and practice, you’re still very young.

MermaidOfScandinavia · 2022-07-18T22:37:48+00:00

You are still young. You can make up for lost time. My early 20s was not exactly successful and I am now a 32 year old woman with the same boyfriend trough 5 years. I have friends who have been single for 13 years with barely any action and friends who is still virgins after the age of 30. It's ok to be a late bloomer. You are still very young. I know most people start in their early teens but its okay not to be that person. This is your year. Good luck.

Title	so basically i'm dumb.
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Date	July 18, 2022 11:47 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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