Starting conversation on insta

Opposite0_0Banana · 2025-09-28T15:18:07+00:00

doesn’t work, maybe sometimes if ur attractive

Disastrous_Affect742 · 2025-09-28T17:33:21+00:00

Only works if your know the women in real life it your very attractive or have a high follower count.

It worked for me alot during school if I flirted and showed Interest with a girl in person THEN sent her a DM

BongInTheSheets · 2025-09-28T15:10:52+00:00

Check the bio, DM something related to that, must be funny.

PRO TIP: Dry Hi doesnt works

DrBarackPendergrass · 2025-09-28T17:10:56+00:00

1) NEVER say the word "Beautiful" or use the same corny ass emojis (Or any) as everyone else. STAND OUT. Everytime she sees your name on IG, she should have a slight adrenaline rush.

2) Have something that Sparks her interest on your page (Great pics, unique bio, etc...)

3) Say interesting things to her Publicly (at least 2 or 3 times spread out over days/weeks without DM'ing her) that are relevant to her posts and have nothing to do with sex, love or beauty.

4) Then DM her on something recently relevant or situational to her, or to the both of you.

NOTE: A semi-famous "Solid 9" actually DM'ed me out of the blue First when I did 1 through 3, so have as many "hooks" on your profile and in your bio as possible (She said she "loved my bio.....")

Ill-Jellyfish-8816 · 2025-09-28T14:55:17+00:00

That shit never works

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-09-28T18:45:17+00:00

Delete the app. Messaging random women on social media is peak Gen Z terminally online illness.

deeznutzmatters · 2025-09-28T15:51:58+00:00

wanna make whooppeeee

ArjunVermaReddit · 2025-09-28T16:44:20+00:00

You'll have to have a presence or something engaging yourself. If you have good photos of yourself definitely put em up, but otherwise - dogs, art, streets, jokes and observations, whatever your vibe is. Keep reposting

Llanero_chupandofrio · 2025-09-28T17:05:23+00:00

You have to have a good profile and upload many photos/stories constantly showing an attractive lifestyle. If not, you're going to waste your time, no matter how many text-games you try.

superfly_guy81 · 2025-09-28T16:10:19+00:00

either they going or they ain’t but it’s more viable if you know them irl

purpleshoesamurai · 2025-09-28T18:18:35+00:00

"here to shoot my shot"

NateValentine · 2025-09-29T07:56:52+00:00

First I like a story, often they like stories of me back, and then I reply to one of their stories and notes, pulled SO many girls like that, Insta is the real deal fuck dating apps

No-Dot-7661 · 2025-09-30T11:42:23+00:00

My female coworker got DMed by a mutual friend and he just made a comment on her story then started talking. They're now dating.

caesarca · 2025-09-28T15:05:08+00:00

"Hi" there ya go

Title	Starting conversation on insta
Author	Affectionate_Boss657
Upvotes	26
Comments	21
Date	September 28, 2025 2:50 PM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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