Seriously. Stop. The friendzone is not a problem. Know what IS a problem?

Being butt hurt about the friendzone.

I mean, so many people, especially noobs, get put in the friendzone and they make it some sort of commentary about their whole fucking life. Jesus Christ, it means, one girl isn't interested in you. ONE girl.

If it happens to you 1000 times in a row, then we can talk.

But, again, focusing on the friendzone doesn't solve the real problem - the real problem being that the only people who spend time thinking about how they've been friendzoned tend to be the most dramatic, boring people you can meet.

Think about it. Can you imagine, how tedious it is to be around the type of person who complains about how a girls aren't interested in him?

It's tedious. It's the opposite of fun. That kind of complaint comes from the kind of person who is perpetually drying up panties. Stop it.

I get that you're frustrated when it happens a lot. I get that you think it might mean something is "wrong with you" or whatever. Maybe there IS something specific you can improve.

But, whatever it is you have to improve, I guaran-fucking-tee you that "finding clever things to say back to a girl who friendzoned you" is not the solution. Shit, focusing on the friendzone at all is part of the problem.

Focus on your game, cuz. Call the friendzone what it is: a girl who is not interested. Don't wear that shit around your neck like a fucking scarlet letter because it's really unattractive.

Instead work on these things:

  • 1000 approaches. No ifs, ands, or buts. You don't get fit by NOT going to the gym, you don't get good with game by NOT playing it.
  • Escalation. Be comfortable being sexual.
  • Reading people's reactions and body language without becoming completely oblivious to other factors
  • Learning how to take rejection with class, and without it affecting your confidence (the solution isn't whining like a dog that didn't get his treat at the end of the day)
  • 1000 approaches. What the fuck. I shouldn't even have to mention this, much less twice.