Techniques - What are the best techniques to get a girl back to your place for sex? For example, while on a date that's going well....what do you say....

Notarandomencounter · 2017-09-04T15:53:38+00:00

Make sure you have her in a good state of mind (ie. Happy, flirty, horny). Make sure you have talked about something awesome you have in your apartment. A puppy/book/dildo/ movie clip etc. DOESN'T MATTER!! As long as you talk about it. Later, after you've kissed her during the date (This is important. By kissing she is thinking about sex with you) and when you stand/sit/whatever outside your home. Invite her in, to see the puppy/book/dildo but throw in a time-constraint (you cant stay very long, i have that thing in the morning). The puppy/book/dildo is just her excuse to come up with you, so when you say she cant stay long, she can tell herself ,'' it just kinda happened''. Show the thing. Iniate kino, kiss, close.

TheLimitlessMale · 2017-09-04T15:59:06+00:00

I use the drink excuse.

"I have a bottle of champagne at my place, let's grab a drink"

Any alcohol works, but champagne gets the best response imo

Kenic_In_MD · 2017-09-04T16:39:05+00:00

I've used some new vinyl albums that I just got because we liked the same band.

"I have this new artwork vinyl I want to show you back at my place, you want to check it out?" I wrote this in one of my first FRs it worked! Basically she knows why she is coming back to your place so anything would work if she is interested technically.

"I have lots of water at my place, want to get a cup? You seem parched"

"My apartment has this really nice view"

ThePUA_Baddie · 2017-09-04T20:51:41+00:00

i like to use the music/movie excuse. i'm on the date with her and we're vibing, drinking, chatting. 45 minutes into it i usually start seeding the pull. "you've got to hear some of the music at my place, after this let's head over?" simple as that. you basically want to take any excuse to get her back to your place and tell her that. then wait to see how she reacts. if she's all for coming to your place and doesn't hesitate then congrats you're gonna be able to pull. if she doesn't say anything but smiles then most of the time that's a good thing. if she gives you excuses like she has to do x in the morning or she would prefer if you guys did y then you're most likely not gonna be able to pull

GraemeM32 · 2017-09-04T17:44:53+00:00

"Hey bb u wan sum fuk?"

penis_in_my_hand · 2017-09-04T20:23:31+00:00

First of all there is no "formula".

If you're looking for some system where you say XYZ and do whatever, and she'll go from "never going back to this guy's place" to "wow this guy is irresistible" you're setting yourself up for failure.

Understand the woman's mindset and go with that.

Women want sex just as much as men. But she might not want it with you, and if she does, she might not want to be seen as "easy".

That's why most of the comments in this thread involve making it seem like it just sort of happened. You're not tricking anyone. You're just allowing it to seem "cleaner" in her mind.

TLDR: Assume she's as into you as you are into her, and escalate until the next logical step would be to go back to your place.

DisguisedHarpyEagle · 2017-09-04T18:41:56+00:00

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ketamarine · 2017-09-04T23:43:35+00:00

Just have a good reason lined up why she needs to see your place.

Good points re: suggesting it on a high note: - Enjoying an awesome bottle of wine - "Oh you like Italian wine? I have a way better bottle we could be enjoying on my patio now" - Joking around about something funny - "Have you never seen that youtube video XXX? We have to go watch it together, you'd love it - my place is just around the corner" - Talking about travel - "Those waterfalls in Brazil were stunning - you would love to see the videos / pics I have... (guess where???)

DumpyLips · 2017-09-05T02:07:00+00:00

Don't over think this.

"Wanna get out of here? I have some beer at my place"

Xperiencedsyd · 2017-09-05T09:14:55+00:00

say "Hey, come back to my place for sex." Every time it works, it works 100% of the time.

tajbinjohn · 2017-09-06T11:25:08+00:00

Logistics.

Is your place a hassle to get to, or is it a short walk/ride away?

Title	Techniques - What are the best techniques to get a girl back to your place for sex? For example, while on a date that's going well....what do you say....
Author	Fitzrock
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Date	September 4, 2017 3:03 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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