I'll try to keep it short because my grammar is rubbish.

Basically, I've never had any trouble finding a girlfriend, or picking up women. I'm a charming guy and I love to talk to people. I don't feel intimidated by women, and I don't really think anything when I talk to someone. I just want a good conversation.

I stumbled onto seddit after reading "The Game." I thought it was really interesting and I figured I would give his techniques a shot. It did seem to increase my success, and found it to be interesting from a psychological perspective.

My only problem is, I'm overwhelmed with how boring people can be. I can't seem to get attracted to someone if they aren't a bit "different" in some way. The whole seduction community seems to be committed to taking the leading role, and being a better person, which can be attractive. But, are we (or just me) missing this “truth” that most people are kinda boring. We're just programed to constantly chase after women, when we aren't really interested in them. And are we not noticing these things because we've become a leading man. There’s one post where the title says it all “Stop caring about outcome-> entertain self” if you’re just entertaining yourself, it allows for the girl to potentially be a empty, boring void.

The truth is, I just want to get laid. And maybe I should just lower my standards if that's all I want. But personally, I have trouble being attracted to someone when they're not interesting.

I’m really interested in hearing everyones thoughts on this.

Thanks!