‘To reflect a confident frame, get yourself in the mindset that it’s your party and everyone’s invited’ this was the advice I was given and decided to put it to the test at a 3 day event I was attending at a resort. This event consisted of hanging out and hotel party’s with likeminded ppl. I went not knowing anyone but soon clicked with the guys i was rooming with.

My intentions were to simply have fun. I made no effort to peruse any women and treated them like I would anyone else. I wanted to see if the image of conference alone could attract a women. I walked with my back straight, shoulders back, and with purpose. I didn’t wanna come off as a dickhead but I also wanted to give off the sense that it was my resort and my party.

By day 2, people were naturally gravitating to me, something I’ve never experienced. I eventually had a girl basically begging for my attention, she was showing all the signs that point to ‘I wanna fuck you’. I said absolutely NOTHING that would make her think I was even slightly interested. Again, I was just there to have fun.

(Side note: I’m 27 and have attended my fair share of party’s but could never hookup with anyone)

Even though I knew what she was saying, I wanted to see how far she would go without me pursuing her. It got to the point where she just looked at me and said “I’m going back to my room” and that’s when I made my move. the rest is history. After the event, I felt like a new man entirely. I went to the bathroom and looked myself in the mirror in disbelief of what happened, and I owe it all to the advice I was given. The girl I slept with assumed I was a player who got around quite often, which couldn’t be further from the truth.

Seriously guys, I’m nothing special. I’m 5’9, my nose is big, I have long hair, I wear glasses and I have an average build. If I can do this shit, so can you. You’re given advice every day, it’s up to you wether you actually put it to the test.