The Perfect DHV

Pullthesky · 2013-08-19T18:34:42+00:00

I agree that it is important to demonstrate that you are higher value and not afraid of just walking away but I think that the "you're one of those" makes you kind of sound like a drama queen. To be able to just say "It's clear our values differ, it was nice meeting you" or something indicates higher value but doesn't come off as obnoxious or aggressive which indicates insecurity.

Tiapaa · 2013-08-19T20:40:25+00:00

And then...?

Are you expecting her to run after you and remove her clothes on the spot?

Girl rightfully calls you out as a PUA, and you passive-aggressively eject? I'm not a fan.

rootchino · 2013-08-19T22:17:36+00:00

And with that gem.. unsubscribe. Too many inexperienced people, giving shit advice that somehow constantly hits the frontpage.

The word 'Perfect' in the title should be an instant red flag, this place needs less subs and more knights of new.

fragglemook · 2013-08-19T23:37:41+00:00

Jesus, neckbeard, you need to get out more. This is transparent game playing. It may work on a chick with zero confidence.

It's not the dumb line that might work, it's the fact that showing you are willing to walk away is an attraction switch you need to use just about every time you flirt. There are more fun and subtle ways to do this though, the mere act of working the room means you are unattached to the outcome of the interaction with the target. But it is part of qualification and just looking like you're about to leave for something else elicits the same response.

possibleaddict · 2013-08-19T19:55:43+00:00

ONE OF WHAT?... HUH? .... ONE OF WHAT? ... TELL ME... TEEEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLL MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!

This is what is going to happen.

Afrojitsu · 2013-08-19T19:29:40+00:00

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frostedbutts9001 · 2013-08-19T23:20:48+00:00

Please, never do this.

ackshunpact · 2013-08-20T04:08:16+00:00

This is very disingenuous and I think any girl with a normal brain will see it as unnecessarily dramatic. but if it works for you, great!

Personally i feel there are much stronger ways to deal with a woman giving you shit. Ways where you project confidence and don't seem overly dramatic. If a girl you like puts some obstacles in your way is it better to squash them and keep going forward or to avoid them and walk away?

You say this trick is DHV but you aren't demonstrating anything but your willingness to play games. It's more like faking high value and hoping she buys into it. If I walk away from a set it's because I don't want to be there any more. if a girl gives me a hard time I handle it like a man. No Jedi mind tricks.

OutlawPUA · 2013-08-19T21:29:24+00:00

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2013-08-20T11:52:04+00:00

Guys, stop the bullshit. This is clearly a theory and like any other it needs testing. Let's have a constructive debate about this, and not simple "that shit will never work, not even worth trying". Are you guys actually so arrogant that you claim you understand the female brain? The point is, you never know what works.

n1cey · 2013-08-19T20:44:54+00:00

The idea behind this is good, but in realty it will not work that well, because hot girls will just see this as heavy powerplay, and simply move on. They have more than enough guys interested in them.

Here is what I do when she behave this way:

"That is really unpolite of you, I'm afraid that you'll be going home with a notice for you parents (for college/school girls). I'm afraid that just cost you a written warning(work girls). I'm afraid I'm going to have to give you up for adaption. "

I allso reward girls when they do something good, with stars in the book, better grades, promotions, by fake marriage talk, adopting her as my little sister.

I call bs on 90% success rate.

LittlePistol · 2013-08-19T19:12:19+00:00

Yea, no. I would find that comment/action immature. She might be interested still if she were desperate.

MistaFANG · 2013-08-19T20:01:59+00:00

Is it guys reacting to girls, or guys teaching girls? Because both methods seems degrading to me. Why not just be authentic and if you don't connect, you don't connect?

boxofcookies101 · 2013-08-19T20:09:53+00:00

I like it. For a woman to be doing those things such as texting while on a date or giving you shit tests. Calling her out on it and simultaneously walking away is solid. Shows that you aren't going to put up with that shit.

ForYourSorrows · 2013-08-19T18:28:23+00:00

I actually like this. Obviously best to use once you have a little rapport.

throwmc1 · 2013-08-19T18:50:49+00:00

I like it! Would you say it seriously, or semi-joking and smirking?

Title	The Perfect DHV
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Upvotes	10
Comments	51
Date	August 19, 2013 6:14 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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