The simplest imaginable question to which I cannot find an answer.

ThatSpecialPlace · 2014-11-01T18:44:40+00:00

Don't ask to kiss her.

If you hit that moment where you're both looking each other in the eyes, just go in for it. If you get rejected, it's not the end of the world.

SinSlayer · 2014-11-01T18:38:48+00:00

If you're in a public place, I have nearly a 100% success rate with "I'm going to the bathroom. I'll be right back." Followed by a kiss on thr cheek. This is testing the waters. If I go in for a kiss on the cheek and she recoils then I know I maybe moving to fast for her. (NOTE: Girls RARELY recoil from a cheek kiss from a guy they are into. This will almost always work.)

Once thr cheek kiss is established, lips are a logical next step and super easy to get to. Just go for it after that.

If you're in private, just go for it period. Never ask permission for a kiss. And remember the 90/10 rule.

2014-11-02T01:38:09+00:00

Please just don't fucking say anything. My body language will tell you what you need to know. I don't want to talk about kissing, I don't want to be randomly confronted about kissing. It's awkward and forced and shows very little confidence. I just want to be kissed. And if I don't, I'll let you know. Most other women feel the same, in my expirience.

windowtothesoul · 2014-11-01T19:50:11+00:00

It depends a lot on your style and the context of the situation. There won't be one thing that works in every circumstance.

I personally prefer reading the situation and going in with a non-verbal. But I also do like the whole pretending to be flustered and then saying something along the lines of "Fuck it, I'm just going for it". Intuition says it shouldn't work but it has worked relatively well for me.

apackofwankers · 2014-11-01T22:17:19+00:00

No words. Look in the eyes, pause, then lean in and kiss.

jacks_not_surprised · 2014-11-01T22:33:49+00:00

Say, if you can remember my name, I'll make out with you.

DaygameCoach · 2014-11-02T02:26:00+00:00

Nothing. Just kiss her.

Aaron1570 · 2014-11-02T17:08:23+00:00

Yesterday I said "Hey" then kissed her.

Spiderman48 · 2014-11-02T01:49:32+00:00

"wait"

Look her in the eyes till she stops talking and things slow down, then kiss her.

nat_lite · 2014-11-02T22:29:18+00:00

Look up Style's Evolution routine. I used it for the first time last night, and it went insanely well. I highly recommend it.

HitboxOfASnail · 2014-11-01T22:43:15+00:00

"i really want to kiss you right now" or the more direct "im going to kiss you now", both with a cocky as fuck smile like you just KNOW she wants to do it.

alternatively, just go for it without saying a thing.

Acceleratu · 2014-11-02T10:30:13+00:00

Mystery sometimes used following method: In a situation where you are one-on-one with her, when the conversation slows down and you're looking each other straight in the eyes, ask her: "Would you like to kiss me?" She has 3 options at this point: 1. Yes --> you kiss her. 2. Maybe --> you say: "let's find out" & kiss her 3. No --> you say: "I didn't say you could"

Either way you come across as dominant.

Title	The simplest imaginable question to which I cannot find an answer.
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Date	November 1, 2014 6:23 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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Say, if you can remember my name, I'll make out with you.