Something disturbing that I've encountered now that I've gotten more into "the game" is that sometimes when I do manage to pull a 9/10 (still rare) I can't get it up in bed. Like, not even close sometimes. Maybe it's just bc I'm nervous, but my actual working theory is that I'm just totally distracted by their beauty that I can't even gauge my sexual attraction to them correctly.

There was this one girl, for instance, who I had a really big crush on and it didn't work out in bed.. She was ready, I wasn't even close. I realized afterwards that I hadn't ever even looked at her that way while getting to know her, going on dates, etc. I loved her face, and her body was objectively great, but I never felt that magnetic pull drawing my eyes to certain areas of her body or anything like that.

Has anyone here experienced anything similar? Forgive me if this gets talked about a lot, I've never seen it before.

*edits for clarity