This guide to banter helped me a lot

Renegade31 · 2013-05-30T18:05:57+00:00

"When she's not looking, take her pen or something of hers and put it on the ground. Now you can wait for her to notice (you can't point it out, or the line won't work), and bend down to pick it up. Then you can deliver your banter."

Am I the only one that finds this just plain weird?

BackwardsAdvice · 2013-05-30T15:10:57+00:00

I noticed you're sipping your drink. That's a good idea. It keeps your mouth from getting dry. It's like public speaking. The more important it is to impress the audience, the more you have to make sure you wet your whistle every once in a while. And I'm a tough audience. [speak slowly, and smile at the end]

Really? I'm the only one who thinks this is incredibly weak 'banter'.

warorksy · 2013-05-30T12:59:02+00:00

thanks for saving us $97!

WorkThrow99 · 2013-05-30T14:17:18+00:00

If you want the best solution for recording your banter, you should take a look at the Alpha Male Planner membership service.

That's why I'm really not eager to buy anything ever with regards to learning to flirt. They sell you something that cost 97$, and use it to push another service. And the people trying to sell you those things are basically studying how to be a good salesman.

Because of that, I can never bring myself to trust them, and besides, the only thing it ever does is make you go out more, which you can do without paying a cent.

2013-05-30T16:17:58+00:00

Having pre learned lines or "banter" isn't the way to go i'm afraid because you'll start to rely on it and expect girls with varying personalities and in differing situations to all act positively to it.

A man who has 20 good lines learned will always be outmatched by the guy who can flow with the conversation and has no learned lines.

jvanderh · 2013-05-30T20:48:10+00:00

throws up in mouth

tournique · 2013-05-30T14:10:53+00:00

What a waste of money this would have been. There was maybe 1 or 2 pages of decent info that most people would not know - $50 per page is asking too much.

Manny_Rize · 2013-05-31T01:20:47+00:00

Last page "I havent used these lines, but i've used lines likes it. Im positive the lines would work like a charm" or something like that. This guy sounds like a typical keyboard jockey except he's not smart enough to hide it.

Keeping a banter journal can be helpful but it gets ridiculous when he mentions the 10 frames you can use times 30 possible situations to come up with 300 banter lines. WTF? The idea behind canned banter is to eventually come up with them on the fly, not collect them for the rest of your life.

l337m4n · 2013-05-30T19:34:38+00:00

This is almost like anti-wit, keeping a journal? Quit filtering and editing what you want to say and just say it.

deathray_dj · 2013-05-30T21:36:53+00:00

This guide is rubbish. You want to get good at banter? Go out and talk to girls. Riff with them. Joke around. It's not that hard.

wtjones · 2013-05-30T19:00:42+00:00

This guy is asking about the tuna on rye in Blockbuster.

Listen to the David Wygant MP3s in the sidebar for a way better description of banter. Watch any of the rom coms from the 40s and 50s with Katherine Hepburn for more inspiration.

SpaceToaster · 2013-05-31T20:55:58+00:00

Having the perfect response to a bunch of her lines is actually going to work against you. It's quite clear when someone spits out a carefully rehearsed and thought out line vs something that's is real wit in the moment.

You think she is going to be impressed that you have such great, perfect responses to everything she says? No, she's going to think you are a dweeb who keeps a journal on how to flirt with women.

duckhunt420 · 2013-06-03T05:00:07+00:00

These examples are a good way to get most women running for the hills. Are you Hollywood hot? Do you look like Ryan Gosling? Then these will just disgust anyone you try them on.

NateSamsung · 2013-05-30T20:44:10+00:00

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Title	This guide to banter helped me a lot
Author	Luna_Post
Upvotes	55
Comments	23
Date	May 30, 2013 11:06 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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