I can tell you right now, you're going to feel uncomfortable. You're going to come up with the rationalizations about how you don't really have to do that, do you? How I don't know what i am talking about. How you're too busy or you will get to it later. You will plan ahead, procrastinate and then re-plan and then procrastinate again, and then decide you need to read this book a couple more times -- all because you're scared to death of simply being vulnerable. Maybe you've already spent months or years avoiding taking action because you're afraid of the consequences.

Maybe you've put off that career change, that wardrobe upgrade, joining that dating site. Maybe you've missed opportunities with women who liked you because you were too afraid to make a move. Maybe you convinced yourself that you need to "know how" first. Maybe you convinced yourself that you needed to see someone else do it first.

These are all forms of avoidance. And they all come from a deep-seated neediness, and that neediness can only be cured through making yourself more vulnerable. And at first, that vulnerability is going to hurt. You can't skip it. The only way out of it is through it.

Models, attract women through honesty - by Mark Manson