Recently, I was having a conversation with a female friend about a mutual friend. This mutual friend is a guy who is very popular and who many of the girls we work/hang out with have hooked up with, or really want to. He's a good looking guy obviously, but she said something in our conversation that struck me. She said, "He just has this incredible presence. He's amazing just to be around."

I want that. I want to cultivate that. I want to cultivate the feeling that girls get around my friend. I'm above average looking and I have a lot going on for me, so I don't necessarily want to be someone else, but I want people to feel about me the way they feel about him, just by being around me. Now all I need is for someone to point me in the right direction. I want people to crave my presence the way they crave his. I want people to vie for my attention the way they do his. Where do I start?

Any suggested reading material, videos, or tips on this would be greatly appreciated. Thanks so much!