Tips on how to get laid in NYC

cirquedusoleill · 2026-05-21T19:56:45+00:00

The models are on 5th Ave or honestly pretty much anywhere in NYC. Find a nice rooftop bar, dress sharp, and smell good. When you see her, approach with confidence.

IMO, Hinge is a solid option too, as long as you’re willing to spend some bread and send more than 7 likes. Have a good profile= put some effort into your pictures and prompts, you’ll start seeing results.

SithLordJediMaster · 2026-05-21T20:30:18+00:00

Technically there are slightly more women than men but there are slightly more single men and than single women. This is for NYC.

Also, half of single Americans say they're not looking for a relationship. This is US in general.

NYC's Health Department reported a rise in STI for 2021-2022. Just be aware.

Dating in NYC is really the same as anywhere. Have social hobbies, etc...

Follow cirquedusoleil advice....

abcsofattraction · 2026-05-22T01:12:09+00:00

NYC is one of the best cities for dating in the US, especially for short visits because density and walkability mean you can hit multiple venues per night without burning time in transit. Day game works in coffee shops and bookstores. Night game runs in bars and lounges. Apps can supplement if you match with women open to short-term connection.

NYC has the best daygame in the world by a wide margin. Multiple parks (Central Park, Washington Square, Bryant, Madison Square, the High Line), constant pedestrian density, and the city's concentration of model agencies, fashion castings, and creative industries mean you can genuinely walk past working models on a Tuesday afternoon. Most cities don't have this. Bring this into your trip planning by working daygame during the day before you ever step into a bar at night.

A couple of quick principles for a visiting guy:

Don't lead with "I'm here on vacation." It frames you as temporary and most women will deprioritize the interaction before it starts. Lead with your actual life context (what you do, what brought you here, what you're working on) and let the vacation context come up naturally if at all.

Density matters. Stay in Manhattan or near-Brooklyn neighborhoods (Williamsburg, Bushwick, LES, East Village) rather than further out. The 30-minute travel radius from your hotel determines how many venues you can realistically work in a few days.

Full breakdown of neighborhoods, venues, and dating dynamics: [NYC dating coach guide]

YoungCaesar · 2026-05-22T12:32:43+00:00

feeld (app) best for a sure thing, woman are the MOST beautiful though

Realwoujo · 2026-05-21T23:39:48+00:00

Go to these places: Union Pool, House of Yes, Melody's (for an older crowd). Look up some club promoters and tell them you will pay $150 to be a part of their table for the night. A different night go to a rave in Brooklyn. You can find Raves in the Resident Advisor app. For daygame, SoHo, East Village, or Times Square. Also have c$ke.

smind893 · 2026-05-25T07:28:43+00:00

Ugh The generic responses

If you want to get laid then go to a bar of a vibe you like, sports, hard drinking, live music etc.

Talk with everyone especially the regulars, tip the bartenders well and then wait till after 11 as those who are looking to party are staying past 11

Wrap it up, don't cheap out on the hotel and don't fall in love

Have fun

Haunting_Bid_408 · 2026-05-22T12:45:22+00:00

I miss NYC. I get approached all the time there just off my looks and drip

Title	Tips on how to get laid in NYC
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