Tips to maintain Eye Contact?

jasamaha8 · 2012-01-11T03:40:53+00:00

I am the worst at this and only one thing has helped. Learn to enjoy the fealing of them looking away first, its almost empowering.

explosion2910 · 2012-01-11T04:52:26+00:00

Step One: Read this

Step Two: Thank me.

wtjones · 2012-01-11T07:24:19+00:00

Use David Wygant's tip about thinking of them as a " naughty little girl" who vibrates to you and calls your name out while she does it. Say "you naughty little" in your head before approaching. Has the added benefit of creating a perfectly natural smile.

bhaze · 2012-01-11T01:55:39+00:00

I have this problem too.

I always try to smile and nod when I get caught before looking away, that way you at least don't come off as a scared little man. (It's easier said than done, but just remember these steps and practice, it's not so bad after you just do it.)

WerkinAndDerpin · 2012-01-11T02:35:10+00:00

This has been a work in progress for me but I've gotten alot better. Honestly I try to remember how fucking cool eyes are. Some people have some gorgeous fucking eyes. When you look at someone pick an eye and make a note of the color. Start small in terms of gaze length and work your way up.

And just remember eye contact is part of conversation. You might not be comfortable with it yet but most people are and will expect you to look them in the eye. You're never going to form serious connections with people without doing it.

2012-01-11T02:48:28+00:00

Stand in front of a mirror for a few minutes and stare into your own eyes. That's the only real "exercise" I know. Otherwise, what you might have is a self confidence issue. Work on your inner game. Your thoughts and mind change your body language.

c0n5pir4cy · 2012-01-11T03:28:08+00:00

Nice and simple affirmations helped me the most. Just say to yourself something like:

"I enjoy looking into peoples eyes." "I am confident and people are interested in me."

yenners · 2012-01-11T05:32:14+00:00

Women want to be looked at. They want to feel like they are wanted. Why do you think women spend so much time in front of a mirror, or shopping, or wear those heels and sexy skirt. They are starving for the right attention. So give them what they want without shame.

2012-01-11T14:38:50+00:00

I like to focus on one of their eyes, and then switch between them.

I've never really had an issue with eye contact for whatever reason, I think I just learned to do it in job interviews and now I use it everywhere.

mikedog87 · 2012-01-11T05:20:24+00:00

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AveofSpades · 2012-01-11T06:27:05+00:00

Man up.

Seriously, it's not too hard. Just look into their eyes. Enjoy the color.

ShamwowTseDung · 2012-01-11T06:18:32+00:00

I just like to see the color of people's eyes.

I don't know if I ever had this problem - it was something I heard that made you get respect, so I did it and mostly still do.

Mostly meaning the moments where I don't want to appear as if I'm staring from afar while walking towards someone...I just can't stand being stared at - so I aim to not stare at others.

crashdummie · 2012-01-12T15:48:28+00:00

Step one: keep looking.

wtjones · 2012-01-11T07:30:29+00:00

Use David Wygant's tip about thinking of them as a " naughty little girl" who vibrates to you and calls your name out while she does it. Say "you naughty little" in your head before approaching. Has the added benefit of creating a perfectly natural smile.

Title	Tips to maintain Eye Contact?
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Date	January 11, 2012 1:35 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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