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Tired AF

Pleasant-Salary-7047 · 2022-01-05T13:24:56+00:00

I'm 25 now, tired of being hopeful that something will magically happen, there's another wave of covid and I have no idea from where I'll...

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January 5, 2022

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Title	Tired AF
Author	Pleasant-Salary-7047
Upvotes	1
Comments	42
Date	January 5, 2022 1:24 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/rwmul6/tired_af/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/tired-af.1269622 https://theredarchive.com/post/1269622

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[–]stanthemilkman88 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Canadian-Seductioner 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (36 children) | Copy Link

[–]thelambofdeth -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (35 children) | Copy Link

[–]Canadian-Seductioner 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (34 children) | Copy Link

[–]thelambofdeth -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (33 children) | Copy Link

[–]Canadian-Seductioner 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (32 children) | Copy Link

[–]thelambofdeth 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (31 children) | Copy Link

[–]Canadian-Seductioner -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (30 children) | Copy Link

[–]thelambofdeth 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (29 children) | Copy Link

Still doesn't mean you deserve it if you're not making yourself into someone that people want those things with.

Annnnd how do you know if someone has/hasn't already done that? What if you have? Oh right, I forget women aren't shallow and it's always your fault...lol

Not everyone else can get it. You're not getting it either. Lots of other incels and losers out there show that it's not as simple as just existing. It's still an exclusive club that you need to work towards to get into.

Except it's not. You don't work towards it, you're either good-looking or have a huge social circle or you don't. And if you don't you're fecked. It's not "exclusive". It's just rigged. You're either in or not. There's no "working".

Besides, it is asking for much. You're expecting people to be attracted to you when you're not willing to put the effort in to be attractive. Fuck off bro you're wasting my time with this idiotic mindset of yours.

lol again assuming. Personally, I'm 6'3, I'm in really good shape, I groom and have a skin and hair regime, and I dress far better than any straight man does bc I just have a legitimate interest in fashion, and I actually go out. Yet all of that work doesn't matter because I'm not good-looking. Its the one thing you can't change yet the only thing that matters. I've literally done all the work I can, so again, more idiotic assumptions, ignorant bro rhetoric and strawmen.

[–]Canadian-Seductioner 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (28 children) | Copy Link

Annnnd how do you know if someone has/hasn't already done that?

If you're spending your time crying about not being wanted to strangers on the internet, then you definitely haven't done that.

What if you have?

Then you wouldn't be having this problem.

h right, I forget women aren't shallow and it's always your fault...lol

Oof, definitely not going to attract any women with that attitude.

Except it's not. You don't work towards it, you're either good-looking or have a huge social circle or you don't. And if you don't you're fecked. It's not "exclusive". It's just rigged. You're either in or not. There's no "working".

Or that one.

Personally, I'm 6'3, I'm in really good shape, I groom and have a skin and hair regime, and I dress far better than any straight man does bc I just have a legitimate interest in fashion, and I actually go out.

I question the good shape comment, I cringe at the fashion comment, and I meh at the rest.

Yet all of that work doesn't matter because I'm not good-looking. Its the one thing you can't change yet the only thing that matters.

The biggest thing you can do to make up for having an average looking face is getting jacked. If you haven't done that, then you have no right to complain. If you are legitimately ugly though, then yeah forget about chasing women unless you have money.

I've literally done all the work I can

Like I said, unless you're jacked, then you haven't. Also doesn't help you to have this negative incel mentality. Women will sniff that out so quick.

Side note: if you truly believe you've done everything you can to be attractive and you don't get any results, then what are you even doing here? You're just wasting your time and making yourself more miserable by staying in this subreddit. Go pursue other passions in life. Unless you actually believe there's more you can do, but that would undermine everything else you just mentioned.

[–]thelambofdeth -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (27 children) | Copy Link

If you're spending your time crying about not being wanted to strangers on the internet, then you definitely haven't done that.

Crying=/=being honest. If you've worked on yourself and it hasn't changed anything, its not your fault. Again, things are rigged and mentioning that isn't "crying".

Then you wouldn't be having this problem.

lol you don't understand. It's not a binary thing. Some people can do all the work in the world and get nothing, while others can do nothing and get everything. This issue isn't tied to effort or work.

I question the good shape comment, I cringe at the fashion comment, and I meh at the rest.

You don't have to be some hulking, roid addict to be in good shape. Also what's the first things people mention when they say "you need to make yourself more presentable and attractive...show you care about your appearance"...is to dress better...and as soon as you mention you dress well? "cRiNgE" lol. This is why reddit isn't worth taking remotely seriously. And if you aren't hygienic and don't groom, it's considered a major issue...but when you mention you actually do it...it's negligible. This is what I mean about how pointless the work is. The goal post is consistently moved any time you seem to make any progress. Nothing except for steroids, your wallet or plastic surgery matters.

The biggest thing you can do to make up for having an average looking face is getting jacked. If you haven't done that, then you have no right to complain. If you are legitimately ugly though, then yeah forget about chasing women unless you have money.

I have a lean build...I want to actually want to fit my clothes and not look like a bloated meathead. And yes I am ugly, and duh I'm aware the only cure for that is a surplus of money. Like I said, none of the work actually matters.

Like I said, unless you're jacked, then you haven't. Also doesn't help you to have this negative incel mentality. Women will sniff that out so quick.

Yeah sure, just like they can sniff out all the guys they ultimately end up with that use, beat, abuse, cheat on, assault, etc them? Oh WATE-. They can only sniff out anything at all when you're ugly. You can have the nicest, most pleasant mentality ever...you're still weird and creepy, while that guy that looks like Armie Hammer that's going to do god knows what, doesn't set off any of the ol' spidey senses. Gee, I wonder why...

Side note: if you truly believe you've done everything you can to be attractive and you don't get any results, then what are you even doing here? You're just wasting your time and making yourself more miserable by staying in this subreddit. Go pursue other passions in life. Unless you actually believe there's more you can do, but that would undermine everything else you just mentioned.

Pursuing other passions, again, doesn't somehow alter your humanity and curb you craving for companionship. That remains regardless. In general, yes, its a good idea to just do things that interests you...but you're still going to want women. As far as more I can do, sans plastic surgery or becoming rich...there isn't much. And that's not something so easily accepted....

[–]Canadian-Seductioner0 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

lol you don't understand.

You're the one that doesn't understand. If women actually wanted love, companionship, and relationships with you, then you wouldn't be having this problem, plain and simple. Obviously they don't so you are having this problem.

and as soon as you mention you dress well? "cRiNgE" lol.

I didn't cringe at the mention of it, just cringed at the way you boasted about it lmao

This is why reddit isn't worth taking remotely seriously.

What are you doing here then?

This is what I mean about how pointless the work is. The goal post is consistently moved any time you seem to make any progress. Nothing except for steroids, your wallet or plastic surgery matters.

If that's what you truly believe, then again what are you doing here? This is not a subreddit to cry about how bad you have it, it's for men who are able to get women to share their strategies.

I have a lean build...I want to actually want to fit my clothes and not look like a bloated meathead.

Okay then enjoy not having women find you attractive.

You can have the nicest, most pleasant mentality ever...you're still weird and creepy,

I guarantee you do not have that mentality lmao just the way you talk to me tells me you're a miserable human being who only brings negativity into people's lives.

you're still going to want women. As far as more I can do, sans plastic surgery or becoming rich...there isn't much.

There is, but you're refusing to accept it.

Anyway, this is going in circles so I'm done here. Long story short, you're in the wrong subreddit. You've already internalized that women don't want you so there's nothing for you here. Stop wasting your time and adding to your misery by lurking on this subreddit and go out and live your life. Bye ✌️

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I just got the image that this sub is his safe place where he acts like he knows what he’s talking about to guys who know less and they eat it up.

Lol it's not acting if I actually get results.

Things like “ if you’re ugly you need to be rich” would only be said by someone who lacks inner confidence.

Lmao what? It's a fact of life. Although had you actually read the conversation I was having with the other dude, you'd have noticed that I was telling him to make up for his bad looks by getting jacked, not by getting rich.

Someone who doesn’t truly understand women and can’t fathom how to provide value as a man other than looks and money.

Lol nice stretch, you a yoga instructor?

No grounded man(seductioner🤡)would spend as much time and effort as he does here.

Or maybe I'm so grounded that I have enough free time to spend trying to help others? 🤔 Might be too hard of a concept for you to grasp though so don't worry if you can't.

[–]PeperoParty2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]Canadian-Seductioner1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Lol this is what I mean man. You take this stuff so personally. I didn’t even respond to you and yet here you are trying to defend your “credibility”. For what?

Nah, not trying to defend anything, just calling idiots like you out.

And where are these results you speak of? They’re just words on a forum…

Very true. Up to you if you decide to believe me. However, it's usually pretty easy to tell who knows what they're talking about here.

Tell me, in what fantasy land does a grounded man have enough time and energy to invest as much time as you do on an anonymous Internet forum page frequented by guys with dating troubles? Do you even work?

A guy who works from home for a chill job that gives him lots of free time to fuck around. Look into r/antiwork bro, life is not only about slaving away for someone else.

But the real question is: What do you gain from spewing the same stuff as every other ”pua” and belittling other guys who are actually seeking help via clarification and are actually honest with themselves?

Are you though? All I see is you coming in here attacking guys who actually know what they're talking about because you're bitter about the fact that girls don't like you. If you actually were seeking help, you'd listen to people like me, not go on the attack when we tell you what you're doing wrong.

Anyways, even in your fantasy, one day your looks will diminish and you will be left with your shit personality😂

Lmao another ignorant comment that tells me you have no idea how attraction works. Maybe work on yourself like I did and you too can be attractive to girls. Or don't do anything and continue being average then crying that girls don't like you because you're not a chad.

[–]PeperoParty2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]Canadian-Seductioner1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Awww now you’re just desperately trying to insult and offend me. What a small man😉

Just doing you a service 🤗

When did you see me comment on here “attacking” someone other than you many months ago? You act like it’s a normal occurrence but I totally forgot about you until I saw your exchange with the other guy.

Actually was just referring to this once instance and then assuming your behaviour off it 😊

If you weren’t so upset you could see that I wasn’t asking for any help whatsoever. I’m very comfortable with who I am and am in a happy long term relationship with a very beautiful girl.

Happy for you bro! You're in the wrong subreddit though FYI, this sub is for those who are actively trying to seduce women.

Lmao then tell me how attraction works little man. Just being good looking, buff, and rich?😂😂 that seems like just about the extent of your “knowledge” so I’d genuinely like to know if you have any substance.

Take a look at my last post if you genuinely want to learn. Something tells me you'd rather continue keeping your eyes closed though 🤷‍♂️

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[–]Canadian-Seductioner1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

lol that is literally not the definition of seduction. Look it up.

"The enticement of a person to sexual intercourse". Literally what I said. Don't know wtf you seem to think it is lmao

I would even argue that it’s harder to seduce the same partner every day rather than a random new one.

Maybe for you. The fact that you even had to say that tells me that your gf probably hates the thought of sleeping with you and only does it out of pity when you beg her enough 😂😂😂

Hahaha you would be delusional if you saw what my gf looks like.

Wish I could, but at this rate, I'm starting to think she's an onlyfans model you subscribe to and call your girlfriend as a result 😂

Nah dude that’s being a responsible adult…

Slut shaming to add to the mysogyny, can't say I'm surprised!

Anyways, I’m tired of this. I have things to do unlike a certain someone who claims they work yet has all the time in the world to seek validation on an anonymous Internet forum.

Definitely don't need your validation 😂. Like I said, look into r/antiwork. I love being able to do whatever I want and get paid for it. If you enjoy licking your boss' boots, the all the power to you!

Grow up man. And good luck.

Likewise! Sounds like you need it.

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[–]Canadian-Seductioner1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Hahaha you’re so small and immature it’s hilarious😂 the fact that you think a real adult would give a shit about your insults. Also, your reactions are very “nice guy” material.

Yet you keep responding to them, hmm 🤔🤔🤔

Really, I hope you find better use of your time and life. You shouldn’t seek validation from anyone other than yourself little man. “Definitely don’t need YOUR validation”.😂😂😂

You keep bringing up seeking validation. Self-projection, much? Sounds like you're the one who might have an issue with validation lmao

Just stop embarrassing yourself any further and stop responding please…

If anyone's embarrassing themselves here, it's the guy coming to a seduction subreddit when he thinks sleeping with women is icky 😂😂😂

btw I still don’t believe for a second that you work. Not full-time anyways. You are just too immature to be a productive member of society…

Yep, full-time. Getting paid as we speak actually! I have no desire to be productive though, if I can get paid to call out losers like you, then I'm very content 😁😁😁

“Sounds like you need it” omg lol you’re killing me😂😂😂

Glad I could brighten up your day 🤗🤗🤗

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Being short (subjective, since men's height vary by country) is (generally) a setback when it comes to women. One can debate how much, but that's subjective. As always, different women value different things, but one that I consistently note cross-culturally (I can speak four languages, and lived in 4 countries at an age of < 30) is that if you want the good-looking ones, $ can be a deciding factor. The value of $ also increases in patriarchal cultures (such as the one I come from), such that being tall or even buff doesn't matter as much as financial stability. So yes, it's superficial, but so are the hotties (in general).

As for confidence, you can be the most confident badass in the world and still not be confident with women. Confidence is a broad and loose term, so one has to distinguish/be specific.

If you're solely talking about women and dating, yes, if you're buff, you're going to increase your yield rate unless your game is on-point such that all other factors are overshadowed. However, being tall/buff/rich lends you access to more women, which is what men are most interested in.

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