Too afraid to do anything.

Then-Recording6836 · 2022-01-21T22:21:52+00:00

There is a concept of "as within so without." Everything that you just described is your inner world. Your feelings toward yourself and what your reality is. That inner world will always be reflected into the outer world. You'll get exactly what you described. Unless you can change your self image and conception of reality. This is a little too metaphysical for this section. But this concept really helped me a lot and you may find some use in further research here.

iJuiiCe_x · 2022-01-22T00:35:19+00:00

Join a fighting gym/dojo. Get your ass kicked. Learn how to kick ass. Embrace masculinity

posuccess1 · 2022-01-22T01:13:12+00:00

My guy rejection is part of life, don't take it too hard.

We as human beings are incredible with our potential to grow and get better.

Furthermore, keep working on yourself, get conformable with whatever makes you uncomfortable.

https://www.nerdycharmer.com/category/dating/

Get in the habit of practicing in the mirror on a daily basis.

God gave you everything you need to succeed, you just have to reach down in get it.

Cheers

Therocksays2020 · 2022-01-21T22:14:10+00:00

You should invest in counseling/therapy. It sounds like you’re not just paralyzed in dating but life in general.

This will help to give you some perspective as you pursue healthy relationships

creativeoutlaw44 · 2022-01-22T02:21:25+00:00

Exposure therapy will be your friend.

Look it up.

https://www.berkeleywellbeing.com/rejection.html

SpicyAttom988 · 2022-01-22T02:59:33+00:00

You will never be like those guys with the mindset you're displaying. If you see how those guys are sad and dumb, then you already have the decency and mental capacity to not act like them.

2022-01-21T23:24:04+00:00

Go to therapy, because this is bigger than just seduction, this will affect every aspect in your life if kept untreated.

dasanman69 · 2022-01-21T22:53:01+00:00

Do yourself a favor, check to see if you have balls. If yes then, for the love of all things holy, act like it.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-22T00:25:59+00:00

If policemen, firemen, doctors and soldiers were all like you, our society would have collapsed thousands of years ago. We can't overcome your phobias and fears for you. Only you can do that.

2022-01-22T08:58:21+00:00

You gonna live your life in fear or grab it by the balls?

stanthemilkman88 · 2022-01-22T14:07:35+00:00

So you want to stay where you are and this is your life to decades to come?

Shadow__Account · 2022-01-22T15:24:53+00:00

I think your confidence will be build by putting yourself in these situations of pressure conflict and rejection and by experiencing that it hurts but you are still alive and alright afterwards, you can slowely build that confidence that you'll be fine going in to these situations. I say slowely because I also think stretching your comfortzone to an extreme will make you run back in there and curl up like a little ball so take small steps as small as you want and experience the fears be in the moment and also experience the small successes that come with taking these chances. You don't have to be Don Juan tomorrow and have a one night stand with a model, just ask the fucking cassier how much the apples are, maybe some other day ask how much the condoms are and not buy them, to get comofrtable and not feel ashamed. Ask that old lady on the street what time it is. You need to put in the work and learn to enjoy the journey and before you know it The gut punches will be post usada Overeem punches and so on.

Title	Too afraid to do anything.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	19
Comments	18
Date	January 21, 2022 10:07 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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