Tried conversation threading and it worked. Here's why I think it helped me.

2012-01-27T20:17:55+00:00

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MARSpu · 2012-01-27T18:39:06+00:00

Yes, conversational threading employs active listening. That's why I practice word association to myself before doing any pickup.

folderol · 2012-01-27T19:46:03+00:00

I learned that, from am anxiety perspective, it always helps to be much more interested in the other person than yourself. This applies to conversations with both men and women. If you can genuinely be more interested in what they are saying than what you are thinking the nervousness goes away and usually people walk away thinking you are a great person or a new friend. Yes you need to have good things to say in response but active listening is a huge step in the right direction.

shakagnar · 2012-01-27T19:19:36+00:00

Any good links to conversational threading?

blahdude1 · 2012-01-27T22:54:17+00:00

Conversational threading just sounds like good conversation to me.. for a guy a girl.

1) Listen 2) Say something interesting related to what they said that provokes a response 3) Repeat

You can use step 2 to steer the conversation when you want.

burning-ape · 2012-01-27T19:38:59+00:00

If you or anyone else finds the thread, would you mind adding it to the post? It sounds like a good read!

2012-01-28T02:05:44+00:00

I didn't notice it before, but it was like the how I met your mother episode where they realize all everyone's annoying habits. Women do just talk to talk and they just relate to whatever you are saying, this threading thing is gold.

With guys all my conversations are linear and have purpose/ are informative, and that is what I am used to, but with women you just talk to talk.

Iam_alwaysRIGHT · 2012-01-28T05:59:23+00:00

Would try this out.

Title	Tried conversation threading and it worked. Here's why I think it helped me.
Author	Dwight22
Upvotes	61
Comments	18
Date	January 27, 2012 6:37 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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