Trying to reel this one in

jimmyayo · 2014-05-09T04:16:05+00:00

Don't text for a few days and hit her up next week with a ping text like nothing happened. Being scarce over text is a huge way to create attraction - make them MISS your presence, not get tired of it.

whatdoy0uknow · 2014-05-09T05:52:19+00:00

you're texting too much, set up a meet don't try to show your 'best game' over text. as far as your situation unless there is attraction you going off the radar won't do anything.

recyclablebantha · 2014-05-09T11:55:18+00:00

.....we go back and forth for about 3 days. Out of no where she doesn't respond to a text for an entire 2 days,

And did you ever try to set up a meet-up with her? Did you pass up any hints from her to ask her out?

HULKx · 2014-05-09T15:42:28+00:00

Any calls for specific situational advice with a specific female should be directed to /r/askSeddit. Note that is askSEDDIT, not askREDDIT.

dooyoufondue · 2014-05-09T19:17:18+00:00

IMO you already messed up. It's not irreparable though. I think you should already be on a date with her at this point. I would personally hold off on the texting for a few days as the thread suggest. BUT, after a few days, I would CALL her. Set up a date with her, take charge. She gave you her number, I believe she wanted you to set up the date, not make friendly talk.

joshsway · 2014-05-09T19:09:39+00:00

Did you ask her to hang out in real life throughout all this snap chat/texting/technology orgy you guys had? If not, that's a start. Now, of course it could be she just isn't interested, but you've got to just get to the freaking point and get her out again instead of dicking around on stupid apps. I'm guessing this is your real problem here, not what to do next, i.e. what you should be doing already.

WhyAmIEvenHereOMG · 2014-05-09T22:02:34+00:00

The bigger question is why haven't you made plans to see her again after 3 days of back and forth?

skidmarkofbuddha · 2014-05-09T11:28:45+00:00

Go out with some attractive girl friends if you have any, and post a few snapchat stories or send her a snap or 2 of you having a good time with them, then don't text her for at least a week.. if she doesn't text you, maybe call it quits

Title	Trying to reel this one in
Author	SubliminalPepper
Upvotes	5
Comments	21
Date	May 9, 2014 4:01 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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