Ways to use the Benjamin Franklin effect

quinntuplets · 2016-11-18T00:25:27+00:00

This isnt really a favor but i think its fun to play the question game. Basically you ask a girl if she wants to play and the loser has to buy a drink for the winner(you always win). If your not familiar with the game, basiclly the rulea are that you will ask her 5 questions and all she has to do is get them all wrong. So you start by asking her 3 random questions. For the 4th question, you say "wait how many questions was that?". 90% of the time she answers 3 which means she loses. If she is smart and says a number other than 3, quickly say shit and act sad and follow up with "have you played this before?" And shell prob say no which means that she loses. Then get her to buy your drink.

brian242 · 2016-11-18T03:18:22+00:00

Why don't you buy the girl an expensive dinner with roses and chocolates? This means she will be more inclined to have sex with you because she owes you a favour!!!

^ Is what every "nice guy" thinks before having his expectations destroyed and turning into a miserable, bitter asshole that no one likes.

Leave this manipulative shit alone. It won't work a lot of the time, and when it does, it probably wasn't the stupid games you played, but more the fact the she already liked you in the first place.

Overnight_Delivery · 2016-11-18T04:17:34+00:00

it's not strictly about favors, favors are what people do for friends. you need to convince / have her do something she only does for people she has sex with etc. therefor subconsciously she'll justify it because you're someone she'd have sex with.

Ultimately this is the whole premise of confidence. Just show up doing things only her boyfriend / guy she has sex could get away with and if she reciprocates then she'll (subconsciously) justify her reciprocation.

IE: asking a girl to simply change locations with you would be an example of the benjamin franklin effect used in seduction.

sefmz · 2016-11-18T02:48:27+00:00

BS psychobabble. If someone likes you they are likely to do you more than one single favor. That's it.

kalolilo · 2016-11-18T11:46:01+00:00

This whole concept is exactly what escalation is. Get small yeses in the beginning, and gradually escalate. :)

whistleclick · 2016-11-22T10:56:37+00:00

Seddit really disappointed me on this one.

I was going out and looking for fun human games to play with the women I would approach and mostly got back people telling me using psychology to manipulate women into hanging out with me is somehow wrong?

WTF?? Isn't that what Seddit is about!?

Title	Ways to use the Benjamin Franklin effect
Author	whistleclick
Upvotes	6
Comments	15
Date	November 18, 2016 12:16 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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