What about seduction for women?

pyr0566 · 2019-05-21T13:45:17+00:00

Be careful with some of these answers here.. some of these men come to this sub because they understand nothing about women, and their answers really show that. I've had attractive women in my past. It's no longer something I need; I'm much happier to get an interesting lady with passions and an excitement for life.

SamsAdvice · 2019-05-21T18:20:09+00:00

I saw someone else post it, but Matthew Hussey gives good advice. To summarize, its about creating more opportunity for men to approach you and making it easier.

Examples of when its hard to approach a woman:

You are walking around with another man
You are with a group, especially an all female group
You look busy or are on the phone
^All of those convey "unapproachable"

How to make it easy to approach...

Ask for help or an opinion: What do you think of this dress, steak, perfume, could you help me lift this...etc
Continue the conversation after asking a question/help. Otherwise a guy may think you just needed help and are not actually interested. Ask more questions about him. The first question creates opportunity but there needs to be follow up
Touch him physically: knee, shoulder, arm, compliment them if they are fit, the clothing feels nice, anything. The added physical contact, shows its okay for them to touch you back in the same way. Its breaking the ice on physical intimacy. Maybe place your hand on his shoulder if he says something really funny.
Suggest doing things together. Say yes to doing things together. Avoid saying "maybe" or "im not sure" or anything vague to plans. Make definite plans

For Sex: be attractive, be as easy as you want.

For a relationship, do more than just provide sex. Be a great girl, nice, sweet, independent(or somewhat), supportive, great personality, make an effort, contribute to a relationship, do nice things, and of course sex. Don't use sex as leverage. Have sex when your comfortable, and want to. Don't use it as a reward and punishment(withdrawal). Communicate well. If you want something or want him to do certain things, maybe cuddle more, or something random, let him know. Don't expect him to be psychic. Give him advice so he can be better for you. And likewise, take advice so you can be better for him.

Sex is the easiest thing to offer, it requires little effort. Nice girls can offer sex, bitches can offer sex. Hookers can offer sex. Doing all the other stuff, is what makes you great quality for a relationship.

hunterpua · 2019-05-21T13:59:42+00:00

You know, a lesson most of the guys on this sub have learned is that its not very helpful to ask women for advice on how to seduce them.

It tends to be the same the other way around too so the answers you get here might be way off.

There is one coach who I'd trust to teach women how to seduce though, his name is Matthew Hussey.

He has a YouTube channel. Try to check him out.

His stuff might sound like the common feel good stuff but that's just because he wants to maintain that image for marketing.

I know for a fact that he has a very deep background in psychology and NLP so if you really listen you'll realize he teaches some pretty hardcore shit.

getyourlifeplease · 2019-05-21T15:49:09+00:00

Ok...no offense to anyone here, but remember that a lot (not all) of the men in a lot of these subs have not just seduction issues but overall social ones: some are inept, some lack self awareness, some have absolutely NO experience with women at all let alone how to get sex (thus why they are here to learn)...so you may NOT get the answers you are looking for.

As a girl let me tell you that if you have had no luck with men at all, because men are visual and typically go for what attracts them physically initially, then there is a chance YOU may need to make some improvements in your look. Have you gotten any feedback from any guys??

MengerianMango · 2019-05-21T16:30:06+00:00

Things are opposite for women, kinda. You wanna be careful taking advice from men because men value sex over relationships (and women tend to be the opposite). They'll tell you to be easy, essentially, which will end up with you just having lots of sex and no relationships. Honestly, I have no idea what you can do to help increase the odds of relationships.

That's all assuming you want relationships. If you really think you're cool with just sex, just be easy, follow similar steps of escalation like are described here, and it'll happen.

codewizbambam · 2019-05-21T10:05:57+00:00

Mmmmmh I have to post this over and over again. While seduction books for women that have some quality to them are rare, you can still read some of the good stuff that is basically written for both genders. Evolutionary Psychology has a lot of knowledge about mating strategies, and if you want a really good communication training (that is actually not really scientific, but pretty effective) There's some good NLP books out there.

greenlittleman · 2019-05-21T09:57:43+00:00

There is no "seduction" sub for women for a reason. I assume it is common sense what most men have only one main criteria - your physical attractiveness. If you are physically attractive then you could have as many sex as you want and you can choose among many men to find someone who is good choice for you. If you are obese or have really unattractive face then no matter what you do most men just wouldn't be interested. Most people understand this so there is no much info about seduction for women and this topic is rather unpopular.

Work on your looks, choose among those who are interested in you, that is it. Your personality matters, but only when things are already developed to long term relationships. If you have terrible personality then guys wouldn't date you for long.

HeavyMeringue · 2019-05-21T10:38:43+00:00

Feminine women are naturally seductive and have game.If the woman is not a feminine one,she cannot attract a high value male.Take care of your looks and do not be too disagreeable.That's it.Plus do not act as if you want to be wined and dined,you may lose tons of men because of this.

Title	What about seduction for women?
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Date	May 21, 2019 9:40 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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