What am i Doing Wrong

ZincMan · 2019-04-30T07:35:19+00:00

You didn’t lead it to you meeting up/hanging out together

mojo_mast · 2019-04-30T20:47:34+00:00

Becaue that was a pointless convo, you should be either trying to build value, or get a date, everything should be leading to asking her somewhere. she doesn't want to text you random shit. Shoot her a text asking if she wants to get coffee sometime.

zincSF · 2019-04-30T14:54:44+00:00

Focus your texting on arranging your next get together. Try the tom torero videos on youtube on text game (just search youtube for "torero text" and you find several). Good stuff, from a working pro.

IntoxicatedOrange · 2019-05-01T01:48:10+00:00

That particular conversation was pretty fucking boring and there's nothing to respond to that, it's a dead end. She's probably bored because you are not going into any sort of depth to connect with her, this is totally surface level stuff. It's hard to get to know someone deeper on text anyway so you should ask her to meet you, although it might be too late at this point. Next time find out some more personal points to connect on during the approach, or be more direct that you want to go on a date with her... indicating that you would like to learn more about her on a deeper level while on the date.

blacviruz · 2019-04-30T20:50:07+00:00

To be honest, even as a guy as I most likely would not reply to that last message. Women are supposed to be led but that last message doesn't do that, it kind of puts in her in a situation where she might have to try to make the current topic of conversation exciting or generate another exciting one. too much stress, she might as well not respond.
Also, remember these women are hit up by hundreds of guys daily, we cant be butt hurt when our messages get lost in the huge sea of texts they women receive.
Like other comments said already, hint at the date/meetup in the initial interaction and get the number to figure out logistics for the meetup, not build commonalities or chit chat.
At this point, I would just ask her if she would like to hang out sometime or not. Example, Hey (herName), im free this weekend, lets grab drinks/coffee etc.
if yes, try to make it happen else move on, shes not interested/attracted enough.

Pokemastra · 2019-05-01T16:13:47+00:00

The conversation didn't transition or lead anywhere - no escalation, no setting up a date, etc. When you vibe with her, you're able to talk about a variety of things and get responses and have a good time. Have a direction in your conversation while also keeping in mind how it's flowing.

Title	What am i Doing Wrong
Author	Lemmetellyousum
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	April 30, 2019 7:30 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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