What are the rules for texting? Any tips for texting girls?

qwopRacer · 2016-06-03T05:38:44+00:00

Tough, had different experiences contrary to only use texts to setup next date

Anyone have thoughts on 2 situations:

Girl1- texts super late and boring(she's does nothing all day during vacation)

Girl2:always responds quickly in a 'happy to see you' mood and flirts over texts anytime of the year

Feel like girl1 only bothers when she sees I'm with another girl. Girl2 is happiest person ever with me. I like girl1 a lot, but I can't read her?

DaygameCoach · 2016-06-03T03:49:11+00:00

Read the sidebar help on texting.

DerpishGambino · 2016-06-03T15:50:42+00:00

I'm 21 and fairly outgoing and social, I text girls. I don't give a fuck. I'm not lonely, I'm not desperate, I simply enjoy conversation. Sure, I don't text every girl constantly and I may not reply for 1+ hrs, but I don't pretend to be all distant cause some guy on the internet told me to.

Example: one girl I've been seeing recently has a very similar taste in music and one of our shared favorite artists released an album, so I texted her about it and we had an ongoing conversation about the album, which then dove into other topics spanning the next few days before we saw each other again. And guess what? Absolutely nothing bad came from it. Still ended up f-closing, we still text and she is still clearly attracted to me.

Is every girl like that? Hell no. Does that mean you should go with what you feel is comfortable and also works for you? Hell yes. Develop your own game and do what works. It's easy to fuck up text game, admittedly, but if that's your thing then roll with it.

Zimmerboy_ · 2016-06-03T09:07:20+00:00

Don't. Honestly phone game is all bullshit. If a girl likes you she should meet you, respond to all of your texts etc. if she flakes you and doesn't see you again then the evidence is right there for you. She didn't like you in a romantic way.

MysticalQuack · 2016-06-03T14:57:09+00:00

Texting or any type of technological communication is for setting up plans.

Unless you have known this person for a while, you shouldn't be texting them all the time.

YennoX · 2016-06-04T07:54:08+00:00

If you want some prescriptive rules...

Thou shall not send longer texts than she
Thou shall not use smileys and exclamation marks more than once every three texts
Thou shall not respond to texts in under 40 minutes under any circumstances -- if it's urgent or important, she will call you
Thou shall not double text under any circumstances
Thou shall not go over 10 texts in between every (offer for a) date
Thou shall not ever write anything that involves the use of question marks
Thou shall not have predictable texting response times
Thou shall not text between the hours of 10pm-10am, unless it's a 'Good night' text after a date
Thou shall not have an average text response time of shorter than 5 hours (exc. calculated only during 'awake hours' of 10am-10pm)
Thou shall not send more than 3 texts in any 10am-10pm period.

reddiot666 · 2016-06-03T09:41:50+00:00

The first rule of text-club. 1) Don't talk about text-club.

Title	What are the rules for texting? Any tips for texting girls?
Author	SSJMessi
Upvotes	33
Comments	16
Date	June 3, 2016 2:55 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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