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[–]abalone_sandwich 26 points27 points28 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The fact that you took the time to write this shows the answer is yes, you should've kissed her. It seems you have built up enough rapport/comfort with this girl, so why not test the attraction? Really, the worst that can happen is she says 'no' again. Big D.
Seriously guy, she's into you. Kiss her and report back.
[–]M1n1true 8 points9 points10 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I should be seeing her tonight.. Full comment on intellectualwit's reply. Thank you!
[–]intellectualwit 4 points5 points6 points 14 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
She wanted you to kiss her, that was her way of asking. Don't get oneitis with this girl, you like her, you asked her out she said no. Don't let it affect you. Like you said, if this was any other girl you would have kissed her, well, she IS some other girl. CLOSE CLOSE CLOSE CLOSE CLOSE CLOSE CLOSE! Women want men to take action and take what THEY want. You want to kiss her + she's giving you IOIs = k-close.
Report back with a follow up! Good luck brother.
[–]M1n1true 2 points3 points4 points 14 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link
I should be seeing her tonight, but it isn't set in stone. If it happens and there's any opportunity at all.. I'll go for it. Thank you and thanks to the others who replied as well!
EDIT: As we do get along as friends, you don't think moving in for the k-close without, I don't know, asking, might end that? Sorry, I'm an aspiring PUA and am still working to get in the mentality to just go for it.
[–]abalone_sandwich 6 points7 points8 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You have to be the one to decide what you want out of the 'friendship'. If you feel attraction and want to pursue it, do it, kiss her. Kiss her hard. Show her what she missed the first time around. If she wants nothing to do with it, that's fine, you may continue as friends.
If the friendship ends because of your advances, then I would put the 'friendship' itself into question. Remember, you are living your life for you, as best you can. If she wants a piece of this man-meat called M1n1true, great. If not, that's also great. There is no losing. There is only learning.
[–]maggisv 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly, you have nothing to lose at this point. You already tried and "did your time" of feeling bad about her saying no the first time. So now you just go for it whenever you think "This might be the moment." But whatever you do, don't ask "Can I kiss you." If you really need the confirmation you can ask "Do you want to kiss me?" Or just say "Kiss me," without any hesitation.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
How did it go?!
[–]M1n1true 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I actually just got back. I'm going to post the update in the main post. Thanks for the interest, writing it now!
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Too friendly bro! Get in there and actually make a move. If you don't I'll fly to the US and punch you in the dick.
[–]M1n1true 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
^ Made me lol.. But yeah, I know, you're right. What do you think of maybe asking her on like a casual date? If I do, do I straight up say it's a date or just invite her? Smoothies or something on campus? Options are limited and her and I are both very busy.
Calling this one off.. She doesn't want to do anything below the belt until she's married. I respect her views, but they're not shared by me, so I'm just going to move on.
[–]Reddittoomuch 3 points4 points5 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Should've went for the kiss.
The possible rejection isn't bad, its the regret that you will remember for-damn-near-ever
[–]Dr_Wily_MD 4 points5 points6 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she friendzoned you and you cut ties, but then she persisted, my logical assumption would be that she re-thought the friendzone situation. This means that her prize is you kissing her. That kind of playful flirting should mean she wants it. And if she rejects the kiss or your advances, tell her to peace out, and call you when she changes her mind. Girls play games. Women don't.
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[–]alphaChompy2 points 14 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Could I have some fries with that?
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[–]alphaChompy1 points 14 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
you are such a clown
[–]Level_75_Zapdos 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not kissing the girl you really care about is like studying for a test, but not taking the test.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There is only thing you ever need to know if you have questions like this...
Action creates opportunity. Opportunity does not present itself to idleness.
[–]mileshigh_23 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No more day same seduction with this girl. Night game is where the k-closes happen. Or at least it's much easier imo. Set up a date for some tea or frozen yogurt. Don't go for the k-close at the end of the night, do it in the middle of the date out of nowhere. Awesome job on the kino. Godspeed.
[–]kingnutter 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Gimme my booby prize first and I'll show you.
[–]ge991 point 14 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Twice now I've played stupid games or bets with girls who have showed no IoI's and I wasn't really trying to pick up.
Both times they've said something like "what do I win?" and I replied with "you can kiss me if you want to" while moving into their personal space and grabbing them.
Both times I've ended up having sex with them.
I think "what do I win?" is a huge, make your move IoI.
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