What is/was your goal?

Leewaak · 2024-09-15T14:10:58+00:00

I want to experience as many girls as i can, theres a notion that “All girls are the same“, when it’s inherently False.

Each girl i’ve been with had her own Personality, Unique Traits, different experiences, going thru different stuff, each one had her own Story. Some were very interesting, some were not

Plus each one has her own Beauty traits, one will have a very pretty smile, one will have a super fine voice, one will have a look that’ll make u nervous

Some will be super pretty, some will be super entertaining to talk with

I want to experience all types of girls out there, experience all the beauty and personality traits

srwat · 2024-09-15T12:56:35+00:00

My ultimate goal since I work a 10 hour day Monday through Friday is probably landing some girl or girls that will be DTF most weeknights. In the meantime, I'll most likely just use each free weekend for doing the dating app thing, practice cold approach here and there, and just continue to educate myself so I avoid the most damaging blunders.

I just came out of a 6 year relationship blindside around the tail end of this summer, so this past month has been a lot of rewiring of habits, sharpening of skills, and Etc. A lot of future oriented viewpoints were thrown heavily for a loop. That being said, I never had issues with connecting sexually with girls before being in a relationship for all them years. It's just getting back into the hang of it all again and perhaps playing the game until I get the one or ones that I want (open to multiple FWBs in order to fully adapt to my schedule's needs), that is convenient for my lifestyle given my work schedule and all that.

MouseAware809 · 2024-09-15T13:02:17+00:00

Do you want to find a partner? Have sex with 100 girls every year? Become "normal"? Experience a specific event? Or do you just keep going, because "journey before destination?"

I am single at the minute. I do not want to get with someone for the sake of getting with someone. So at the minute just enjoying going out meeting new people and seeing what happens. When I meet someone that makes me feel like I value them more than my current lifestyle, then its time to leave the game.

Obviously, once you learn things, you can not forget them, and you are a differnt person. But when will you stop actively looking for new techniques and practicing?

Whatever the level, always a devil. Why am I going to stop improving. Yeah once in a relationship, cold approach takes a back burner. But I will still carry on my daily practices, also there is sexual stuff to explore ("Modern Day Sexual Man" to work through all that really needs a stable partner).

But instead of putting effort into "pickup" the effort goes into "the relationship".

What is the goal of your journey? Where are you now along the road there?

Its not a linear path. My life consists of dipping into pickup, getting into a relationship and if/when it ends, back into pickup.

EDIT: I also want to add, it was since my last relationship that I read NMMNG, there is so much stuff in there that I cannot really put into practice until I am in a relationship.

For those that were around when RSD were a thing, Tyler had a great analogy "For a lot of guys, its like they leave the cave, find a woman, then go back to the cave". I do not want to do this in my next relationship, I know I have done this in the past. Its like my mind goes "Woman found, stop putting in effort". This causes all sorts of issues and probably why the relationship ends (just being 6ft or going to the gym is not enough, despite popular incel belief). So yeah, next relationship is just the start of the journey. Pickup is just the preparation for the journey. To shift from RSD to Hypnotica: This stuff is not a 1 day thing, a 2 day thing, a month long thing. Its a rest of your life thing. However, luckily for me, I have the rest of my life to sort this shit out. Life is just work in progress,

Sure society makes us believe there is completion, but there is not.

RSD (one of remaining videos on the tube):

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U93Hwmi_1zw

Hypnotica:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=967PfRUUeEQ

"There is no fucking completion" - Owen Cook

puma085 · 2024-09-15T13:03:00+00:00

My long-term goal is to make approaching strange women feel completely normal to me like second nature and have some fun along the way. So far I am doing ok. Out of many approaches, I could get 5 hookups so far. The End game is having another long-term relationship.

For now, this is not feasible because I am living in LA now for work related to further education at last until January (maybe longer there is a chance it is getting prolonged) before going back to Austria. So at the moment, I can only get some rather short-lived acquaintances.

I am fine with that at the moment.

agentStag · 2024-09-15T13:41:18+00:00

Find one partner that fits nicely into my life and I can see myself marrying.

Approaching takes time. Spinning plates is quite demanding as well and not very fulfilling to me.

I want to be able to focus on making money and having a steady relationship with a gorgeous girl that matches my vibe.

gaitover · 2024-09-15T14:15:52+00:00

I want a committed relationship

BrauchoLion · 2024-09-15T16:16:02+00:00

Life has to many flavors and i think really a few people in life gives themselfs the time to apretiate that. And with this i don't mean only women, also traveling, new Music, new food, and yes women. Somebody Say it early on this sub each women has something unique amd i feel it's true, not only physical, and to experience diferent womens sexually it's i think a pretty good goal, much more deep that it sounds. Threesomes, diferent ages, diferent races, nationalities, backgrounds, all sorts of fantasies, we may not be able to live it all, but we surely can explore more. 5 years ago i would'n belive what i've fucked now, it was a pipe dream (and i'm not braggin i was on a very low and Bad cuality body count) so i think this could be a lifestyle like much autors say (pardon my English, i'm from Latinoamérica)

FirmGuitar5411 · 2024-09-17T05:12:37+00:00

My goal is to find cool chick/s to have a great sexual relationship with. I’m new to game l, but I approach regularly so I believe in the results to come.

New-Temperature-4067 · 2024-09-19T07:49:04+00:00

I just want the excitement of the game. The novelty.

Title	What is/was your goal?
Author	NiceGuysDatingCoach
Upvotes	8
Comments	10
Date	September 15, 2024 12:27 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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