Whats your routine for getting into a mindset for pickingup?

kettlebell_workout · 2020-12-30T11:44:15+00:00

Just do warm-up sets for a 30-60min.

pringlydingly · 2020-12-30T14:30:23+00:00

Picked up over several years of reading and use. I wish I could find the original article for the values/atrributes, it was a whole in depth guide to pick up. Oh well.

General 1) Body Language 2) Eye Contact 3) Vocal Tonality 4) Vibe 5) Intent

Values/Attributes 1) Confidence 2) Dominance 3) Warmth 4) Humor 5) Whatever else you want to add

Affirmations (my least favorite, but it works for low self esteem) 1) I am the highest value person in this place 2) Everyone here loves me 3) All these girls all want me/are attracted to me

Frame 1) Unapologetically me 2) Non over reacticeness 3) Keep things light and fun and flirty until they arent

Escalation 1) Laser eye contact 2) Prolonged physical touch 3) Physical closeness 4) Mental sexual imagery

After doing these daily for long enough they are second nature and you dont need to do them all the time.

Agreable_Actuator84 · 2020-12-30T10:52:53+00:00

Yeah, affirmations, self talk, practice saying some stuff out loud, maybe journaling and identifying any major limiting beliefs, mentally prepping self to have fun even if I don’t get numbers/meet someone/smash. Usually meet up with wing man. Set some intentions for the night (meet nee people, bring up interesting stories, find cool things about others).

Of course, day is better if I lifted or had other outside time.

revente · 2020-12-30T18:24:38+00:00

The best routine is:

Spotting a great looking girl -> Clenching your butt ->approaching no matter how you feel

By the end of the day, all other crap is just a filler for your brain to cheat yourself into taking action.

Remember that being confident isn't the "absence of fear", being confident is acting despite fear.

The day I've met my girlfriend I was totally washed up after 2 days of consecutive partying, during which I was a demon that approached, and danced with just every good-looking girl in the area. But being an introvert, and a hungover one, my social energy levels were at an absolute zero. It took me a few minutes, to gather up the courage and went up to her. I wasn't as energetic, loud, or confident as usual, just acted modestly and stayed chill. But it worked.

antonthecad · 2020-12-30T19:40:17+00:00

I have a girlfriend now but I just have irrational self belief. I don't warrant it but I think I'm awesome. I back myself to fuck any girl(doesn't mean I do haha).

LegacyDust59178 · 2020-12-30T09:13:32+00:00

I honestly just have a few drinks to loosen me up dude.

Tater__thot · 2020-12-30T14:59:36+00:00

Recite Invictus. Say out loud “I’m a fucking God”

Terabytree · 2020-12-30T21:10:33+00:00

I usually sit in wherever I'm going to be talking to girls (restaraunt, mall, ect) and just get comfortable, helps with confidence. I also listen to my favorite music or just music that gets me pumped and confident. Wear some of your favorite cologne, wear that hat you love, just do whatever boosts your confidence the most

IronringMike · 2020-12-30T20:27:35+00:00

Music open your mind and set the frame and fill to that level

2020-12-30T21:06:11+00:00

At least for me I have to just start talking to random strangers and just getting myself in the social mood. Then not expecting anything from my first sets and then moving onto other sets.

Malibupapi00 · 2020-12-31T08:28:15+00:00

Watch Soul on Disney+. That’s what you do brother.

Title	Whats your routine for getting into a mindset for pickingup?
Author	LegacyDust59178
Upvotes	14
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Date	December 30, 2020 9:09 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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