Where to learn some basic game?

darofwar · 2021-10-06T11:50:34+00:00

Since you're asking, I think the issue here is that you have no idea what to do when in the situation.

Therefore, the best advice i can give you is; Don't think of it as game. Think of it as being authentic, what do you want?

Do you find this girl attractive? Do you want to kiss her? Do you want to touch her?

If shes touching you, she prob wants you to at least do the same. You can mirror her behavior for one and that should be enough to put yourself in a state where its easier for you to think of what to do. But remember that as the guy, anything you do needs to happen with more intensity and assertiveness. You need to scale up anything shes doing if not initially, later into the interaction.

Secondly, you need to learn to build sexual tension. (Slow talking, sexual innuendos, flirtatious eye contact, increasing proximity.)

The key thing here is when you get the aokay by her being receptive to your behaviour, you need to keep pressing on to the next level...

Eg. Youve got the the eyecontact going, youre both coming close to each other, shes looking at your lips/shes looking but nothing else but you, make an attempt to go in for the kiss. Then move from a kiss to cuddling (move to an area where you can be more private) try to get to cuddling, etc.

But the biggest thing here, I think, is to make sure you understand how to build sexual tension... We as men have been conditioned to think that our carnal desires need to be repressed and that its taboo to show your emotions and your masculine nature. Go for it bro!

tellythesloot · 2021-10-06T15:38:56+00:00

In this situation I would ask her if she wanted to take this conversation elsewhere. Ask her if she wants to go for a walk maybe? "Hey there's a lot going on here do you wanna go for a walk?" Like the other guy said build sexual tension but maintain authenticity. Continue your nice little convo but don't let it consume your time with her. Build sexual tension asap. Start off innocently enough to not seem like you're coming on to strong like...."you look good tonight, I like your outfit" Doesn't have to be no Shakespearean shit but let her know you find her attractive and feed off her energy from there... Take action or...goad her into meeting you half way "Are you having a good time? Do you think I'm attractive? What's stopping you from giving me a kiss right now?"

Easy peezy

Fufflewaffle · 2021-10-06T13:07:18+00:00

Don't bother with learning game if you don't already have a really positive and secure self image. Focus on getting your diet right, exercising, develop a few hobbies, and read. There are other self improvement pursuits you can focus on too.

From there on, it will come more naturally, because you won't be trying, and you probably won't be as bothered. Girls love guys that can be engaging and interesting without caring what happens at the end of the interaction.

dreameater42 · 2021-10-06T18:32:21+00:00

not here

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-10-06T16:59:31+00:00

Socialize. Never turn down socializing and going out. Nobody can see your gym body if you ain't getting naked for a chick.

Mmm91for · 2021-10-07T00:54:03+00:00

Read the Mystery Method

Appropriate_Ad3327 · 2021-10-06T08:53:54+00:00

How tall are you?

Jackofhearts22 · 2021-10-06T08:34:07+00:00

r/checkers is a pretty basic game.

Business-Purpose-724 · 2021-10-06T14:57:27+00:00

All the answers are in the book the Alabaster Girl. Easily the best book for you

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-10-06T15:03:34+00:00

“Kissless virgin” Who describes themselves with such a label…. the way you describe yourself already tells me everything about yourself. That lack of self love, that pessimistic internal dialogue you have will guarantee that you remain a virgin.

Exotic_Pop_765 · 2021-10-07T11:13:33+00:00

for inner game watch RSD. for outer game, go out every night. stay congruent while expanding your social circle and make strangers like you. after you get the hang of it try to introduce playfulness a little bit and make people reactto you instead of you reacting to them. especially if there is girls around having them asking you questions or qualifying themselves can make you look as if you god damn know what you re doing and put you on a whole another level compared to 99% of men around.

pro tip: NEVER rush into developing these skills. you need to always act from your heart. cause socially intelligent people can smell bullshit from afar and even if you dont meet them, pretending to be bigger / cooler or hotter than you are can backfire both in the material and in the spiritual plane. its called psychopathy and you are not born to support the consequences. so dont manipulate people. but stay in the field. whatever you learn over there is your PUA bible. videos and concepts come second.

Title	Where to learn some basic game?
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Date	October 6, 2021 8:33 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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