Where to start?

jackthehat6 · 2025-10-05T09:35:56+00:00

Do'nt pay anyone any money! You're gonna get contacted by a lot of scammy coaches due to this post lol

YOu can download basically any of the PDF's online if you look hard enough.

Read it. Test it. You'll learn that no 'technique' actually works in terms of making a girl want you. But you'll need to discover this yourself as most people do!

The REAL answer is taht it's about attraction (so hit the gym! get better fashion etc etc and 'volume' (hit on lots of girls. It's a numbers game. Nobody has some mystical skill where they can say the right words to girls and act a certain way and FORCE attraction in her if she thinks he's super old and ugly for example)

VikingWarriorKing01 · 2025-10-05T08:50:04+00:00

Everything is in this sub but go back 10 years or so.

ImpossibleWaiting · 2025-10-05T09:04:33+00:00

You start by doing your own research and picking and choosing ideas from each book and course you've finished. Daygame Mastery by Krauzer. RSD courses. Models by Mark Manson. Lots of practice and putting effort into living an awesome and highly engaging social life is a must as well.

ImpossibleBritches · 2025-10-05T11:13:49+00:00

Read Double Your Dating by David Deangelo.

It is short and practical. It gives a good grounding in theory. And it gives practical tactical advice.

Mystery Method is kinda dated and a little cringy in some aspects. But it also provides good theory and tactical examples that you can adapt from.

The term "pick up artist" hasnt really been used in earnest in decades. Students and teachers generally recognize that the idea isn't to "become a pua", but to become an attractive man. Tactics are just training wheels for that purpose.

The wiki for this sub is good. Read it.

Most importantly, get infield experience and find peer support.

ThroatFinal5732 · 2025-10-07T17:00:44+00:00

Others already have made good suggestions.

But fair warning, I’d argue they’ll only work IF your current level of social skills and (non-studied) pick-up are “decent” and want to make it better.

Meaning, if you already pull girls occasionally, but want to take it to the next level, then some of the books others have suggested might help. You will begin to understand why things you’ve done work, and replicate them when you want.

However if you lack basic social skills (like I once did) you might try working on that first. Pick up content won’t work unless you have the basics covered.

Charisma on Command (Youtube Channel) and How to Win Friends and Influence People (book) are good sources for basic social skills.

Another important point is emotional stability… if you’re depressed or struggle with anxiety disorder, then that requires work too.

Finally, fashion style and fitness play an important role too. Looks don’t matter THAT much, but they do make a difference.

FlowSurferFromMars · 2025-10-05T08:27:10+00:00

Wow haven't heard about pickup arts in a while! Start with conversation techniques and flirting

Puzzleheaded-Owl-678 · 2025-10-05T13:43:47+00:00

For me it was self developement, than practice approachs and stuff

Steffe_uwu · 2025-10-06T19:09:55+00:00

https://dokumen.pub/double-your-dating.html

Ok-Orange7146 · 2025-10-05T08:47:12+00:00

Coach kyle on youtube and jostenj

Title	Where to start?
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