Which is better? Masking or be my unhinged self

Mountain-Link4598 · 2025-09-03T18:26:25+00:00

Authenticity is better unless you want the entire relationship to be you masking (which would be tiring and unsustainable), as well as be with someone you eventually don’t like because the infatuation from looks wears off, you realise you just don’t click.

Even if the women that like you are few and far between, put yourself out enough there and you will find them. There is truly someone for everyone.

norwegiandoggo · 2025-09-03T18:38:08+00:00

As a neurodivergent you should do as little "masking" as possible in my opinion. Be your wild unusual self 👍 those women who like your unusual personality will be open to you. Just remember most women might not be into you - and that's true for everyone.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-09-03T21:31:16+00:00

Be your natural self. Don't try to play any kind of persona or mask your authenticity. You want to be able to be yourself around people, otherwise you're going to be miserable and you'll look like a fool when you're called out for being disingenuous. It's okay to show a little flare if that's how you like to be. Don't worry about it. You be you. Stay honest with yourself and to others.

themainManKaibaMan · 2025-09-04T02:27:48+00:00

Let’s fucking go be your fucking natural self let’s go!!!! Kick logic to the curve do the impossible. Like let’s be honest do you think trying to maskinh is gonna help you attract the people that you want. Don’t apologize to be yourself ever and I mean that on God. If I’d be stubborn even and face of rejection and don’t be afraid to try again and don’t just be yourself, be yourself without any fear brought to others might think.

Let me know how it goes, dude.

HistorianOk2573 · 2025-09-04T12:06:45+00:00

You must be willing to be your own unhungied version of yourself yes, but that doesn't mean every woman will like it.

Some will show dissaproval and when they show dissaproval you cannot act apologetic or defeated, you must double down with a smile on whatever trait they show dissaproval on.

You never act defensive or bactrack for being you, you always amplify it even more when a girl challenges you on it without being defensive or aggresive about it.

And also understand that being authentic doesn't mean everyone will like you, and you have to be ok with that. You cannot be authentic, get rejected by a girl you like and then reconsider who you are or try to be what you think she will like.

Being authentic means you finally have made the decision that you are you, and if no one aligns with that and end up alone, so be it. But this is easier said than done.

Silly_Randy · 2025-09-04T15:15:18+00:00

You should drip Fred your personality with everyone.

As you connect more and more with people you undress your personality.

You test people on their thresholds. You can't jump in with dark humour with someone on the first meeting or second. Slowly. When you see that the person actually finds your humour funny, you say something even darker. You push the limits slowly.

Dandys3107 · 2025-09-04T16:20:21+00:00

I think it's better to find your own unique way that would feel the best for you and your environment. We need to embrace and create the future, not copy the past templates.

Important_Tip_6181 · 2025-09-04T21:12:01+00:00

Whatever is spontaneous is good, but if your spontaneity feels try hard, then you're not being spontaneous, you're being quirky to get a reaction. If it feels natural without self-consciousness, you're on the right track.

Title	Which is better? Masking or be my unhinged self
Author	AdMain5505
Upvotes	4
Comments	8
Date	September 3, 2025 6:21 PM UTC (11 months ago)
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