Whose day game on YouTube should I watch?

haftzabaa · 2026-06-21T07:23:40+00:00

Honestly, being obnoxious in daygame is mostly pointless. The TikToks where guys get big reactions by running around saying weird pickup lines isn't even really daygame, it's just performative content that looks fun on camera.

Your fear of being "aggressive" or "obnoxious" before you've even been in field is indicative of a specific (and common) inner-game problem. This is not a dig at you, it is overwhelmingly common among timid men trying to learn how to flirt, and I went through the same thing.

You are essentially fighting your own shadow self): you subconsciously believe that expressing desire and being confident is inherently toxic. This is mostly an outgrowth of your fear of rejection.

Now I am not telling you to become obnoxious or aggressive. However, preemptively running away from those concepts when you are inexperienced usually means you are afraid of showing intent and escalating.

So rather than asking what infield to watch, I would ask how to reduce your fear of approaching and what kind of warmups and drills you need to do to start getting in field.

Western-Month-3877 · 2026-06-21T14:15:39+00:00

Just type “daygame infield” on YT search then watch many of them. If their opener is “what’s your name?”, “how you doing?”, “where you from?” or any of those interview-style questions, I would just skip them.

epimpstyle · 2026-06-21T18:40:57+00:00

On YouTube people want entertainment, not to watch boring conversation. Is very hard to find a realistic video because everything is exaggerated or staged just to grab views. A 5 minute staged video is always going to get more clicks than a real, quiet conversation.

For a video to do well on YouTube, you need the girl to give you a super excited reaction, which honestly doesn't happen that often IRL.

I've actually filmed a few videos with a spy cam, but I'm not comfortable putting myself out there on YouTube for various reasons + the city I live in is very small (100k people), so I'd rather just stay behind the camera. However the idea is super simple, once you start talking with a girl you will get 3 types of reactions:

1- you get positive reactions in the first seconds, she loves talking to you, she become curios, ask questions like in this VIDEO this is the best-case scenario (unfortunately it won't happen as often as you might think)

2- you get bad reactions, she is not interested, she is not even looking at you when talking, she wants to leave... like in this VIDEO or VIDEO - (actually they don't speak english but I take it as a bad reaction)

3- she talks to you just to be polite: this is what happens most of the time. When this happen you just need to keep the conversation going, make her laugh, and show her you're a friendly, cool guy like in this VIDEO or VIDEO Most of the time 80% they are friendly, nice and polite even during aerial raid attack > VIDEO , so there is no straight rejection, she is not straight into me, but a normal chit chat and I need to build from there.

You're going to learn way more from these videos than from hundreds of hours on YouTube.

confused_8357 · 2026-06-21T06:47:50+00:00

Personally dont recommend watching infields as u would imitate them.

One of the non negotiables in cold approach is seeming sincere and women can smell that you are just a script being played.

Nonetheless the youtube channel called bayneframe would be the beat for a guy like u.

Checkout his USSR infield video https://youtu.be/JEqWSy3RT1g?si=vzCWSLWfFsPoYrsH

He doesnt post infields

Title	Whose day game on YouTube should I watch?
Author	HistorianGreat5386
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Comments	18
Date	June 21, 2026 3:25 AM UTC (1 month ago)
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