Why can’t I get laid just need some advice

appolonysian · 2024-09-24T04:03:09+00:00

A lot of your solution is outlined in your own post.

“not good at communication” work on being a good conversationalist, and using language to evoke emotion in women you are attracted to.
“never break the touch barrier” do the opposite of what you’re doing now.

Outside of that, be upfront with your intentions and work on non-verbal attraction communicators like eye contact, body language, etc.

Swimming-Dingo3393 · 2024-09-24T06:09:15+00:00

Get on tinder, social media, whatever you can. Try to get dates from anything, make sure all that stuff goes fine, build up a roster, and once you do have roster of females it’s okay if you strike our bc you still have someone to talk to. If not then try to keep building your roster and after that it’s okay as long as you’re able to call anyone on your contact list. But even for you if you are or aren’t looking work on yourself forsure. Our young time is meant to be working in this day and age apparently to create a person that works hard and is committed but also at the same the girls these days want you to be committed but exactly at the same time more committed to you being successful for yourself bro. I don’t want to say don’t worry about girls, but if you can make something out of yourself so your able to be someone to say “hey I’ve already worked soo hard, why should I work for a woman”

MouseAware809 · 2024-09-24T19:53:55+00:00

I’m not good at conversation or getting Socials or numbers and and when I link girls I never break the touching barrier only Give hugs when we see each other

Just get used to talking to people to start with and making conversation.

You seem to know what your issue is. Only way to solve it is to go out and talk to people.

DaygameCode · 2024-09-24T10:07:32+00:00

Weil you asked “why can’t i get laid?”

The answer to that is 1• you are not good at conversation, 2• you don’t have game, 3• you haven’t learn effective social skills to deal with women, 4• you have insecurity issues, 5• you don’t understand how attraction works or how women psychology works, 6• you play things safe, 7• your sexual behavior is restrained, 8• you are focused more on creating on comfort with women than on building sexual tension, 9•you currently choose to take on the role of friend instead of the role lover when you talk to woman, and lastly, 10• you put yourself in the friendzone hoping that when they are comfortable enough you reveal your feelings and they’ll like you back too which is not how dating or picking-up girls works.

Those are all the mistakes that you make that explain why you don’t get laid with women. Don’t have time to write in texts how to fix all of them, but you can book a free coaching call here and we’ll go through it no problem.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-09-24T13:52:08+00:00

I’m not good at conversation

Start talking to people.

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2024-09-24T14:41:23+00:00

First tip - start with using paragraphs and punctuation. Call me a boomer, but that is peak disrespect. You vomit some words into a post and expect help? Come on man, that is just impolite. This sub is super helpful and people (me included) will take time out of their day to genuinely help you, but you gotta show some respect to those people.

Cinniann · 2024-09-24T14:42:17+00:00

Why do you want to get laid

Title	Why can’t I get laid just need some advice
Author	Affectionate_Put2292
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	September 24, 2024 3:39 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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